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Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)

Original post by ItalianBride428

IMO...

(after reading through several posts.)

I find that some comments girls have made on some posts in the past regarding other peoples ideas/styles can be seen as disrespectful.

I just want to take this time to put a friendly reminder out there...

We are all different, come from different backrounds and cultures and have different tastes. Please be careful and respectful when commenting as you never know what can hurt someones feelings.

JMO
ItalianBride428 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by Espo22


Posted by ItalianBride428

whew...glad I wasnt the only one thinking this...I was debating whether to post or not...lol



oh no definitely not the only one...This has been discussed before and i think ALOT of girls feel like that



i guess i just dont see the point of being rude to someone....jmo again...lol
Espo22 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by ItalianBride428


Posted by Espo22


Posted by ItalianBride428

whew...glad I wasnt the only one thinking this...I was debating whether to post or not...lol



oh no definitely not the only one...This has been discussed before and i think ALOT of girls feel like that



i guess i just dont see the point of being rude to someone....jmo again...lol



neither do I, or pushing your philosophies...Maybe its the aquarius in me lol. Some people are set in their ideas that they never look at things from a different perspective and if you don't think like them then something is wrong with you

Kimbalina Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)

I like to be postive, because i know I have diffrent ideas then some other brides, and I like FEEDBACK no CRITICISM

Mizzdimple Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)

LOL What did I miss?????????

Espo22 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by Mizzdimple

LOL What did I miss?????????



oh nothing happened lol...She was reading through past threads, dont know which ones and saw negative comments lol

dont worry you didnt miss any of the drama
beachbum05 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)

I gave up on this. Some people just don't have tact when it comes to their opinions.

There's a nice way to say things, and then a tactless way to say things.

The problem is that those who are GUILTY of doing it never REALIZE they are the culprits!

sigh!

ETA: If you don't have something nice to say publicly, FM it to someone. Don't vomit on the boards!
ant n tilde Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by beachbum05

I gave up on this. Some people just don't have tact when it comes to their opinions.

There's a nice way to say things, and then a tactless way to say things.

The problem is that those who are GUILTY of doing it never REALIZE they are the culprits!

sigh!




so true - the moment i saw this i went back and read through my last posts to make sure it wasnt about me

Espo22 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)

Sometimes ill say things...i wont necessarily attack either but just try to show another way to look at things

unfortunately you are right, some people are so set in their ways
ItalianBride428 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by Kimbalina

I like to be postive, because i know I have diffrent ideas then some other brides, and I like FEEDBACK no CRITICISM




exactly, it isnt necessary! everyone has different views on what their ideal wedding is and THAT should be respected.

Sorry to sound like a therapist...lol.
SugaBeans Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by Mizzdimple

LOL What did I miss?????????




i WAS JUST THINKING THE SAME THING!!!
Mizzdimple Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Mizzdimple

LOL What did I miss?????????



oh nothing happened lol...She was reading through past threads, dont know which ones and saw negative comments lol

dont worry you didnt miss any of the drama



LOLLL im like what could possibly top the past drama lol...
Kimbalina Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)

Ok, glad it is not new drama! We need to be stress-free peaceul brides..
sing it with me

Kum-bi-ya my BRIDES Kum-bi-ya
Snowflake08 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by beachbum05

I gave up on this. Some people just don't have tact when it comes to their opinions.

There's a nice way to say things, and then a tactless way to say things.

The problem is that those who are GUILTY of doing it never REALIZE they are the culprits!

sigh!

ETA: If you don't have something nice to say publicly, FM it to someone. Don't vomit on the boards!



ARE YOU TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING BONNIE??
Espo22 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by Mizzdimple


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Mizzdimple

LOL What did I miss?????????



oh nothing happened lol...She was reading through past threads, dont know which ones and saw negative comments lol

dont worry you didnt miss any of the drama



LOLLL im like what could possibly top the past drama lol...



i dont know what could top that but im sure sometime in the future drama will occur again.
ItalianBride428 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)

sorry guys, I will clarify!!


this wasnt about anyone particular...I was just reading through posts since I had not been in a few days as much as usual and saw some posts that just seemed disrespectful towards others.
beachbum05 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by Snowflake08



ARE YOU TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING BONNIE??


Yes, put on deodorant.

No, but seriously, after you hang out on these boards, you can predict who is going to say what. You know what I mean?

ETA: I don't let it bother me anymore though. I did at first, but now I just kinda laugh at some of the comments people make. Like an 'are you serious?!' kind of laugh...
ItalianBride428 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by Kimbalina

Ok, glad it is not new drama! We need to be stress-free peaceul brides..
sing it with me

Kum-bi-ya my BRIDES Kum-bi-ya




lol...

goose-fraaa-baaa

( anyone see anger management? lol)
Snowflake08 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by beachbum05


Posted by Snowflake08



ARE YOU TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING BONNIE??



Yes, put on deodorant.

No, but seriously, after you hang out on these boards, you can predict who is going to say what. You know what I mean?

ETA: I don't let it bother me anymore though. I did at first, but now I just kinda laugh at some of the comments people make.

oh yes, i know exactly what you mean
Kimbalina Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)


Posted by beachbum05


Posted by Snowflake08



ARE YOU TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING BONNIE??



Yes, put on deodorant.

No, but seriously, after you hang out on these boards, you can predict who is going to say what. You know what I mean?

ETA: I don't let it bother me anymore though. I did at first, but now I just kinda laugh at some of the comments people make.


Or who is not going to respond! Which is fine too, I personally like to hear from all opinions, it helps with some decsions. and some people dont have an opinion either way so they dont say anything.
Edited cause i sent too soon
Snowflake08 Posted:

Re: Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)

oh no, you can smell me from there???
darn it!!!! i thought the new stuff i bought would really work!

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