1) I went to countless bridal showers, baby showers and bachelorette parties - is it so much to expect the same thing from those same people??
2) I was literally not able to sleep last night because I was thinking about the weight I wanted to lose. But I have absolutely no motivation and I aparently would rather ***** about it then do anything productive
3) I don't want to have to work 3 jobs anymore - it's not cute
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You have plenty of time to lose weight- don't get down on yourself. Is your dress in yet? I went and tried mine on and that was the kick in the @ss I needed to get on the weight loss track. Good luck!
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1) I went to countless bridal showers, baby showers and bachelorette parties - is it so much to expect the same thing from those same people??
I completely & fully understand what you are dealing with. Some people are just so damn miserable when it comes to returning what you have done for them. I am totally ticked off by the people who have cheaped out on us. I only had the shower, a small & inexpensive b-party & we are having the wedding. Unlike all of our friends who have had e-parties, bridal showers, expensive b-parties, weddings which required us to overnight at a hotel, baby showers, christenings, house warming parties & first birthdays all within one year. W-T-F people?!?????
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It's funny how people expect you to always show up to there events but could care less about yours. It's sad to say but peole don't care as much when it's not about them.
As far as the weight goes, you still have some time to loose it and I'm sure you'll look great in the dress. As for being over worked, that is the story of FH and my life right now, and yes, it is annoying.
But on the brighter side, your date is almost here and things will go back to normal. Feel better
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I understand feeling like you have contributed to so many events and those people should contribute to yours. However, you don't know what everyone's financial situation is. Maybe they don't have the money right now. I am actually going through this right now because I am strapped for cash and was asked to contribute to a bridal shower. You can't let it bother you, you'll just drive yourself crazy.
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I understand feeling like you have contributed to so many events and those people should contribute to yours. However, you don't know what everyone's financial situation is. Maybe they don't have the money right now. I am actually going through this right now because I am strapped for cash and was asked to contribute to a bridal shower. You can't let it bother you, you'll just drive yourself crazy.
I definitely see what you're saying - but I had three friends who had children and got married right out of HS. At 18 I guareentee you I had less money then they have at 28 and I still did everything. They don't even answer texts or emails to find out if they are interested.
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all I can say is, dont let people bother u(funny,since im a pushover and i developed a nervous disorder cuz of it; self diagnosed lol)
as far as weight...its too eary. i mean..yea u can start now.. but ehhhhh i started around easter and i lost 13 lbs?
tuna fish in a packet(lemon pepper seasoned one) ww pita, veggie lovers salad blend and tons of lemon juice. 2 points. 14gs of protein like 9 gs of fiber.. and u feel full the entire day.
focus on yourself mroe than u do on other ppl that upset u. your outter beauty is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy more rewarding than wasting ur time with jackaaasses
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Totally agree dont worry bout others, Ive come to the realization you gotta do whats best for you and not care about others, because half the time they prob wont pull through. Its sad to say but Ive seent his happen all to often. Just take this as a learning lesson of where you and those people stand.
The weight - you have 4-5 months and you can totally work it off between now and then. Dont give up!! :)
