so many of you know the drama with the FSIL and kids at the party-
sooooo she basically said the other day that we have no right to pick who is in our BP and now she is no longer coming in for our wedding-
beautyq115
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You have NO right to pick who is in the BP?? Then who does??/ Her??
Soon2bMrs.MC
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Thats horrible!
Yup FSIL can be ridiculous at times - but at the end of the day its hard to please everyone.
So you pick who you want for your BP!
cjb88
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WHAT!!!?????
SIBride06
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I dont know the story behind this, but that sounds rediculous. Who is supposed to pick your bridal party? her?
EmberLynn
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If that were the case, I would be like good redences. Sorry but if thats how she is, why have her at your wedding.
JanuaryBride06
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When it comes down to it, she'll up at the wedding. And if she doesn't, then it may be for the best. Just continue to stand your ground and try to ignore her drama. You don't need stuff like this happening around you during such a happy time in your life!
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Thanks ladies-
the story behind is is that she is preggers and we wanted to know what her plans were with where she would have the baby being her husband, son and self were in the BP-when we brought it up instead of hearing what idead we had she flipped out and said that we basically were not accommodating her ( which is not true)and she won't even speak to FI-
and now this-people suck-FI has NO family other than her and his mom...
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Posted by tracy2246
Thanks ladies-
the story behind is is that she is preggers and we wanted to know what her plans were with where she would have the baby being her husband, son and self were in the BP-when we brought it up instead of hearing what idead we had she flipped out and said that we basically were not accommodating her ( which is not true)and she won't even speak to FI-
and now this-people suck-FI has NO family other than her and his mom...
Your FH family is about to grow, don't worry about. I doubt anything could ruin his happiness with you.
nygirl77
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That is a horrible thing to say. How are you supposed to accommodate her?
waterspout4
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I say good bye to her. But if you still want her, decorate a carriage and have her push it down the aisle. You can be very creative.