FSIL

FSIL

As most of you know I hate my FSIl. We have no relationship, she was nothing but mean to me from than till now. She is rude and obnoxious and basically is just hurting her family and making every1 feel uncomfortable bc she is a big .......

Well to be mean to me initially she said her daughter was no longer to be a FG bc I said I do not want her in the wedding due to the way she treats me (like some schank he found in a bar).

Well today his mother and sister took the little girl for her gown bc she didn't want to disappoint her. The BP and I all went in Dec. For their gowns but she was not allowed to come. It just kind of bothered me today that I am the bride and I was not a part of this I offered to take her and his mom could come SO it could be special. And it just made me nuts today how that sister of his and my FMIL came into his job to say how beautiful the dress is how excited she was about it and loved it.

Mb I am being silly but why does she have to be so rude to me and turn it into her , her mother and her daughter and include me in nothing and forever trying to steal the spotlight??

Re: FSIL

So sorry you are going thru this, can you talk to FMIL about this? I hope it gets better for you. Could you ask her out to dinner and say maybe we got off on the wrong foot, we are going to be related so I wanted you to get to know me as a person instead of, your brothers fiance. See how it goes.

Re: FSIL

Re: FSIL

Because some people are just cold hearted, selfish a$$$%&*@ that care about nothing but themselves. Oh and they also hate to see other people happy because it makes them feel miserable so they make themselves feel better by hurting you. I really hope after you both get married they come to their senses and realize that they are just making their own lives so much more difficult my being mean to you.

Re: FSIL

I have tried. She is so strange and obsessive with her mother and her brothers. She has always been rude to me. Before me Mike used to always help her with her kids and did a lot for her and she hated that all his time was being spent with me. Her husband does his own thing a lot but she has 4 kids another on the way (shes 31) and just hates anyone being in the spotlight. It's a lost cause and I just forbid to try anymore I have over and over since day1 . I have toomuch pride to tolerate this. I want an apology his mom knows how she is and says she will come aroudn she's crazy you knwo how she is. So thta makes it ok ?? I am so tired of it. It is the only thing thta turns me off to this marriage is being tied to her forever!!

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Posted by milana

Because some people are just cold hearted, selfish a$$$%&*@ that care about nothing but themselves. Oh and they also hate to see other people happy because it makes them feel miserable so they make themselves feel better by hurting you. I really hope after you both get married they come to their senses and realize that they are just making their own lives so much more difficult my being mean to you.

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I agree 100% Try not to let it bother you, easier said then done but dont let them see you sweat. You are happy and obviously she just wants to bring you down!!!