FSIL from he!!- sorry so long

Wow, it never ceases to amaze me what a biotch she can be. Mt FH is a twin and he's engaged to this girl. They just picked their place and set the date (Snuff Mill, next June) and she was telling us about it. She tells us that they're having a small wedding because they're just 'not into the wedding thing' like we are. She was putting down that we care about our wedding and want to celebrate it with all of our family and friends. She then proceeds to imply that we're having 'cheap' food at our wedding because we're having 200 guests and they're having 100 and spending more per person (and by the way, they're not spending much more than we are). Yes, her caterer is Abigail Kirsch and the food will be great, but we're going to have wonderful food too. My FH asked her if they were going to have band or a DJ and she says they're having a band and rips DJ's apart. She says that they're going to have to spend $10,000 on a band because that's the only way you can get a good one. She's 'not going to have a cheap $5000 band' for her wedding. FH points out that our bands are $5500 and they're great. She says that she's never heard of a good band that comes so cheap. Then she says, I hate talking to you guys about this stuff because you get offended. FH and I were like, well what do you expect when your offensive?! My blood was boiling! I hate that she gets to me, but she does. She intentionally pushes my buttons. I try not to let it show, but sometimes I feel like there should be smoke coming out of my ears. The only good part of the day was when she said that they want to move to Florida in a couple of years. Goodbye and good riddance!