FSIL (MOH) invited to of her friends to my wedding, I was just informed that they are not bringing gifts.

eliz808 Posted: May 24, 2005 01:47 PM

FSIL (MOH) invited to of her friends to my wedding, I was just informed that they are not bringing gifts.

jersee3380 Posted: May 24, 2005 01:51 PM

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huh??

leighdvm Posted: May 24, 2005 01:51 PM

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What?? You were TOLD they weren't giving you anything in advance?? What's up with that??

Happybride2005 Posted: May 24, 2005 01:52 PM

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fsil invited one of her friends to your wedding? how come

hmpena Posted: May 24, 2005 01:53 PM

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Was she allowed to invite guests?

LoriH Posted: May 24, 2005 01:54 PM

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Why?

eliz808 Posted: May 24, 2005 03:29 PM

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Her dad invited 2 of her friends ( there is nothing I can say), but these girls usually go t each others events and they don't bring gifts. I have no idea why? Anyway how can someone possibly come empty handed to a wedding, mind you these girls are all wealthy and they went to ritzy girls boarding school. I guess there is nothing I can say, but I just don;t get it. I could never do that.

hmpena Posted: May 24, 2005 03:30 PM

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That is very rude! Maybe FSIL could say something to them, since they are her friends?

VS11 Posted: May 24, 2005 03:31 PM

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I am in shock.....I have NEVER heard of someone attending a wedding empty handed...

NEVER!!!

LFitzy79 Posted: May 24, 2005 03:32 PM

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Were they sent invitations? Does you FSIL give gifts when she attends a wedding? Maybe she can tell her friends that it's really rude not to.

VS11 Posted: May 24, 2005 03:32 PM

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Posted by hmpena

That is very rude! Maybe FSIL could say something to them, since they are her friends?

Maybe FSIL should pay for there seat since SHE is inviting them....Who does that???

ETA: FSIL is your MOH?? i am assuming you are very close to her then..WHY dont you say someting to her?

LFitzy79 Posted: May 24, 2005 03:35 PM

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people never cease to amaze me with how down right ballsy they are.....it will come back to them.

piyopika Posted: May 24, 2005 03:41 PM

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ok.. so basically they are like party crashers... they are not your friend, but been invited by other people to your wedding and they are not bringing a gift.....

AnniesSS Posted: May 24, 2005 03:43 PM

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Posted by piyopika

ok.. so basically they are like party crashers... they are not your friend, but been invited by other people to your wedding and they are not bringing a gift.....

Yea, there's something wrong with that. I think you should tell her that they are NOT coming to your wedding.

cjb88 Posted: May 24, 2005 03:44 PM

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Posted by eliz808

Her dad invited 2 of her friends ( there is nothing I can say).

Why can't you say anything?? Is FFIL paying for them to attend?

nov04LIbride Posted: May 24, 2005 03:48 PM

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Posted by cjb88

Posted by eliz808

Her dad invited 2 of her friends ( there is nothing I can say).

Why can't you say anything?? Is FFIL paying for them to attend?

If FFIL is paying for them I don't see what the big deal is at all. It's not $ out of your pocket. If you are paying, maybe FH can ask FILs to pay for them.

nov04LIbride Posted: May 24, 2005 03:56 PM

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You've posted about them coming before, and how upset you are, but I think it might be something you have to let go. You can't uninvite them, and if I remember correctly last time you said you FFIL was paying for them. It is your day, but if you let something like this get to you that is sad. My ILs invited people I never met to my wedding--just consider it friends of the in-laws.

CJStein Posted: May 24, 2005 03:59 PM

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Um, I think you should uninvite them. Or, let your FSIL know how upset you are about it.

candb Posted: May 24, 2005 04:01 PM

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I wouldn't be too upset over the gifts, because you shouldn't be convinced they wont bring anything. You never can predict what people will do.

Mrs. dleeny Posted: May 24, 2005 04:10 PM

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I would be more upset about your FSIL inviting people to YOUR wedding than about the gift thing.

you just don't invite people to someone elses wedding, PERIOD.