FSIL Problem - LONG
I am really annoyed at my FSIL. I just found out she called my mom to RSVP for my shower (FH told me whole story without revealing actual date of shower). First off she is 10 days LATE, even after messages FMIL & my mom left her. Secondly - she told my mom she wouldn't be able to be there on time, would probably be about 2.5 - 3 hours late, but to still order the dinners for herself & 2 nieces and oh by the way she is bringing her boyfriend's daughter My mom was really to embarrassed to question her and just said OK, not wanting to cause any problems with my in-laws. When my FI heard all this he called to find out why they would be so late, to which she said 'An old friend will be in town that day and I just must see her!' What am I?
I think I have really had enough of her crap! We invited her & my 2 adorable nieces & her boyfriend to the wedding, when she responsed she sent back for 7 guests. We had to call to find out that she thought the inviation was meant for her boyfriends 2 kids (1 boy 16 & 1 girl 12) and the son's girlfriend!!!! To keep peace we let her get away with this (FI & I Must be LOONEY!)! Now she pulls this stunt. I am really pissed at her. My only consolation is my darling FH told her if she can't be at the shower on time - DON'T COME AT ALL. ( At this point, I personally don't care if she attends, comes late or is on time). Of course now they are totally not speaking! This is not how I imagined everything to be. Aren't we future brides entitled to some peace while we run around trying to plan everything? Shouldn't we at least be able to rely on our families to NOT torment us! Beyond everything else that has gone wrong - My FI & I needed this like a hole in our heads.
Sorry this is so long - I just wanted to let out some steam. FH is so angry that I was afraid if I starting ranting he would blow his stack again and call her back to yell some more.
I think I have really had enough of her crap! We invited her & my 2 adorable nieces & her boyfriend to the wedding, when she responsed she sent back for 7 guests. We had to call to find out that she thought the inviation was meant for her boyfriends 2 kids (1 boy 16 & 1 girl 12) and the son's girlfriend!!!! To keep peace we let her get away with this (FI & I Must be LOONEY!)! Now she pulls this stunt. I am really pissed at her. My only consolation is my darling FH told her if she can't be at the shower on time - DON'T COME AT ALL. ( At this point, I personally don't care if she attends, comes late or is on time). Of course now they are totally not speaking! This is not how I imagined everything to be. Aren't we future brides entitled to some peace while we run around trying to plan everything? Shouldn't we at least be able to rely on our families to NOT torment us! Beyond everything else that has gone wrong - My FI & I needed this like a hole in our heads.
Sorry this is so long - I just wanted to let out some steam. FH is so angry that I was afraid if I starting ranting he would blow his stack again and call her back to yell some more.
