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FSIL Vent

idovig Posted:

FSIL Vent

This may sound dumb and childish but I have to vent it I guess. I'm 21 will be 22 in 2 months though and my FI is also 21. He has a sister who is 19 and she acts 15. What bugs me is that she got engaged and it's noticable that everything my FI and I do they want to do but they act so stupid about it. FI sister got engaged with her boyfriend that seriously acts very childish as well. Yes I know I am young also but mentally my FI and I a bit over our age. Everyone who knows us thought it was great and about time for us to get engaged. FI Sister is young acts young and a lot of family is upset that they are engaged and very imature. Now I found out that she wants to do an engagement BBQ in a park. One don't know where they have the money to pay for it. The boyfriend always ask his mommy for money and her credit card is beyond max. I didn't do an engagement party and I want to do one but then I said I have to much to worry about right now so I didnt do one. Maybe I'm jealous but i thought my wedding experience wouldn't keep on being interferred by a brat. I'm venting. I'm not jealous i'm just upset of the fact that I have to share a happy experience with a drama queen. She is one of the bridesmaid and i don't want her to be either but i needed one more person and I have his other sister in it. But the other sister is my Matron Of Honor and she is very sweet. What do I mean I have no idea anymore. Sorry so long ladies.


Veronica
coxmandi Posted:

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Don't worry about venting!! THats what we are here for. I would be annoyed too.
serendipity0680 Posted:

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Don't worry about venting. That's what we're here for.

sarahthegreat Posted:

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if she is only 19, how does she plan on paying for a wedding?? honestly, i would just ignore her. she's looking for attention and if you pay her no mind, she will stop.

shellnroc Posted:

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Veronica,

I totally agree with you. I would be annoyed too. What Sarah said sounds right. She is looking for attention. Try to ignore her, which I am sure is hard since she is FH sister but just block her out.
Also don't be sorry that you are venting. We are all here to listen.

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