OK This is a bit long but I need advice girls...
They (FMIL & FSIL) are driving me nuts
{pours a glass of Pinot}
OK I sent out e-mails to all of my girls a few weeks ago, including FSIL who I asked to be in my BP because I thought it would be the right thing to do. I told them that they had to order their dresses NO LATER then 4/14. Thaat day came and went, I didn't stress over it too much because I figured I still had at least another week to work with. As of yesterday everyone had gotten their orders in except for guess who. Yup, FSIL, arrggg I just wanna scream because it's been like pulling teeth. Everytime I ask her she'll answer me with a question and nevers gives me a straight answer. Yesterday I spoke with the shop owner and she told me point blank that if my dress order wasn't placed by today that I might not have my dresses. I am sooo pissed and totally stressed. I call her stresing and she's like 'oh I can't make it today do you know if... and proceeds to ask me a ton of questions that I can't freakin answer because I don't work at the ******** shop. Pick of the damn phone and call her yourself and stop sending me senseless e-mails and wasting more time. needless to say 5:30, the cut off time came and went. Her mother, FMIL happen to be here (that's another story
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) and what does she do, gets on the phone calls the shop and tells the woman, 'Look my daughter can't make it there and I'll call you tomorrow to place the order' She gets off the phone and says 'see what was so hard about that'.
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What did she think the woman was going to say. She's already told me I'm taking a chance if I didn't order today. I was tempted to place the order without hers and then let her order hers on her own and whatever happens happens, at the same time I know that if I did that it would have created a whole lot of drama around here. We'll see what happens tomorrow, should I e-mail or call her and tell her that she has up until a specific time if not I'm going to have to place the order??? I just wanna cry, then FMIL says 'oh it's nothing to stress over'
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I can tell you one thing if someone did that to her daughter she would have her short hairs twisted!!
Sorry I told ya'll it was a bit long.
OK so after all the BS about the damn dress I figured I would take a step back and let things go but NOooooo, not FMIL... this is what she says in her last e-mail to me, (just when I thought this would all be dropped) .... 'Please do not think she doesn't care. She was told that she had until tonight to go and that was her full intention. She was definitely going to be there tonight. In being completely honest (which I hope is something we can always be to each other) everyone else went two days before her and that wasn't an issue. But enough said, it is done and that is all that matters.'
Now is it just me Ladies but did she have to go there about the girls that ordered their dresses 2 days before?? She just had to have the last word. Needless to say it's been driving me reakin nuts because I wanted to reply so bad but I didn't. Then of course when I tell FH about it, he says this.... '........................' Yup that's right Nothing, total silence. I called him on it though and ask him if he wasn't saying anything because he knew she was wrong, I also told him that I knew that he would never admit it because he would always defend them no matter what they do. Now everyone is PISSED because I decided not to attend his cousins communion today. Hellooo why would I want to go and sit with His Mom and his Sis and his entire family when I know for a fact that all they did last night and today was talk **** about me and the dresses, yeah re comfortable right. He's not even going to be there because he's working. First he calls to ask if I'm going, I told him no, then his aunt, cousin and my FMIL all call to ask the same thing. When FMIL called to ask if I was going and I said no she got all pissy and said ok goodbye and 2 seconds later he calls back. Get this now he calls back to tell me that if I don't go that I'm making a BIG mistake. Now you're threating me, like I have to go or else their will be consequences, F*&^ THEM!! So yeah now I'm not talking to FH and I told him not to call again and to tell his entire family not to either
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Sorry ladies my MOH couldn't be reached and I just had to let this out TIA
