Got to the bank on time. Everything is good except that she thinks I ruined her day by making her leave the beach...btw, banks close at 2, she got home at 3:30 to move her car.
her: I can't get everyone to leave bc we paid to get in
me: this is my mortgage we're talking about. Imagine you had to get stuff done for your new atp and you couldn't bc I was behind you. Why can't you leave? Who drove? Can you take her car and come back here to move your car? This is very important?
NO RESPONSE (above was many texts...I just rolled them into one for this)
me: The bank closes in 10 minutes. Just think about that. My mortgage or your fun. Thanks for making a good choice.
her (finally responding): I tried telling you it was ***'s friends car, but I guess it didn't go through. I just got all your texts now so I thought you had found a ride.
IS SHE KIDDING??? WHY LEAVE IT TO CHANCE?
me: You should have jumped to come here. You shouldn't have kept your car there if you were leaving JUST IN CASE. Imagine if your apt was on the line because of me.
her: Sorry I couldn't 'jump' for you when I didn't have a ride
me: You should have found a way. It was your fault and your responsibility to get back here. Not mine that you made a stupid decision.
her: And I'm sorry but I'm coming home now to move it
me: Bank is closed...now does S*** for me
her: I figured you would have found someone else
me: THAT IS NOT YOUR ASSUMPTION TO MAKE. There would be no problem if it weren't for you. So if I didn't find someone else, you are content to let me not get a mortgage? I see...
her: There was nothing I could do while I was already at the beach.
This goes on for a while, but HOW DARE SHE make this out to be my fault for not finding another way there. I didn't tell her I did...I figured she would feel really badly if she thought I didn't...obviously not!!!!!!
Sorry this is so long. I'm having a bad day. My bad mood from this then caused a fight with my sister and then I called FH and got cranky with him b/c I was fighting with 2 people....it's just a bad day
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