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Future SIL

davenjess Posted:

Future SIL

So - question. Do you think if I strangled my FSIL - you guys could get some donations and bail me out of jail? I don't think i'd feel right spending our wedding savings on getting me out of jail...
Jumbles Posted:

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sure how much would you need
davenjess Posted:

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Not sure how much assault and battery would run...i definitely don't want to kill her - just get my point across...

kellybean Posted:

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we def would

jgl Posted:

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awww what did she do? haha

ant n tilde Posted:

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OMG i had to do a double take! i seriously was like 'wait did i actually post this'

I FEEL YOUR PAIN!!!!!!!!!!!

i will start working on your bail money now but you have to promise to do the same!

wow too funny i was debating if i should post about this bc i feel like i am always complaining on here

BUT WOW TODAY WAS A DOOOOOZY!
Jumbles Posted:

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c'mon girls you can vent if you need to we are hear to listen and support

susdoug Posted:

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if we won't bail each other out...who will? I am sure we will all want to kill or dangerously hurt a family member or member of the BP before we say I do!!
we could all pull together and bail you out! Try not to make the 6:00 news!
bella1028 Posted:

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uhoh what happened?
Jumbles Posted:

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OMG people have been driving me nuts lately and today after work my office manager asked what i was doing this weekend and i told her 'if you see me on the 11pm news i just committed a felony'
davenjess Posted:

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She's just a psycho...she is the only person in the universe who matters...really & truly...

Long story short. She set up a Mary Kary party with my MK lady for august 19th. I was casually chatting with MK lady and she said - i haven't heard from her and i called her. I said -okay i'll remind her...

So much for short - here's what happened

I email FSIL - this is the EXACT email:

You were supposed to be doing a microderm abrasion party???? Alexa has been trying to get with you...

Please email her or call her... her email is:
(email removed for privacy).

If you are still having it - i may want to come if
that's okay..

Jess :)

She wrote me back:
> Hi..that was before I sold the house..thAT wont work
> right now and I really don't have time to do it... I
> havent gotten any calls or messages from
> her...that's weird
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I wrote her back with:
You need to get in touch with her - that's not
something i can do.
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She writes back with:
well that's not somethong I can do either since I have not received a message from her...I have much bigger things going on here right now other than mary kay..im really sorry, but that's not on my list right now...

-------------------- Keep in mind girls - she's already gotten the email address once...

My reply:
Um - it would be on your list if she showed up that
day all ready to go wouldn't it?

I gave you her email address..email the woman.

Here it is again: Address removed.
---------------------------Yes - i wasn't nice - but it takes 1 full minute to send an email...come on...have the nerve to cancel on the lady - don't let her come to your house and find that you aren't there...
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her reply:
what day? She never gave me a day and I do not need sarcasm about it either. it would not be on my list because I never had a day to put
it on my list. some things are just more important
and right now dealing with 2 houses, children and
ending this nonsense is much higher on my list.
thanks.
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my reply:
Kim - it takes 1 full minute to send an email to
someone.

You DID pick a date with her because she told me what it was, August 19th and I do remember talking about it with you that day honestly...that we discussed it was the day before my brothers' birthday, so I wasn't sure if I could go. If you don't remember - that's fine - but don't be rude & not give her the info that you are cancelling.

I get it - you have more important things going on,
but so do other people & they matter just as much as you do. I'll try not to trouble you again.
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wanted her to know now - i'm really pissed off...
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her reply: >

Jessica....
WHAT DON'T YOU GET..I HAVE NO MESSAGE
FROM HER.....all I remember is her asking for a date and I said it would have to be the latest possible. I do not remember her giving me one and SHE HAS NOT CALLED ME TO MY KNOWLEDGE BECAUSE I HAVE NO MESSAGE.
YOU DID NOT GIVE ME HER EMAIL, THEREFORE I CANNOT EMAIL HER...IF YOU GIVE ME HER EMAIL I WOULD DO
THAT. I REALLY AM SORRY, BUT PLease don't start trouble over this because I am truly not going to deal with it. So I am not being rude..you are being rude to me assuming that I am not contacting her WHEN I HAVE NO CONTACT INFO.
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Please realize that at this point - she's been given the email REPEATEDLY!!

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my reply:

KIM I HAVE SENT YOU HER EMAIL ADDRESS NOW THREE TIMES.

I AM BEING RUDE BECAUSE YOU APPARENTLY HAVE NOT SEEN THAT I HAVE IN FACT SENT YOU HER EMAIL ADDRESS THREE
TIMES NOW...

READ THE EMAIL I SENT YOU EARLIER AND LAST NIGHT (SEE BELOW FOR LAST NIGHT'S EMAIL AND SEE IF YOU CAN FIND HER ADDRESS IN IT.

HERE IT IS AGAIN FOR THE LAST TIME:
4th time removed.

--------------I then replied again - calmly:

Just an FYI - i just went back and scrolled through
this email exchange and in it 3 times - you will find
Alexa's email address. If you check last night's
email from me - you will find it in there as well.

So in total - we are looking at you being given that
email address 4 times... I think before you tell
ANYONE not to get nasty and start something over
anything you had best take 5 seconds and realize when you are 100% wrong.

Jessica

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Her reply:
> Jessica...I am not dealing with you about this...you
> have no idea what I'm going through and I really
> don't need your sarcasm right now. You had an
> attitude before the email addresses....I'm not
> continuing with this and I cancelled with Alexa.

--------------------my reply

Kimberly - I have one last question. Where precisely
in this email did i give you attitude?? This is the
first email I sent you that had her email address in
it:

You were supposed to be doing a microderm abrasion
party???? Alexa has been trying to get with you...

Please email her or call her... her email is:
[email protected].

If you are still having it - i may want to come if
that's okay..

Jess :)

As to a concern about getting any more emails from me you have nothing to worry about. I get it now - you are the most important person in the world and the only person in the world with problems. If for some reason I need to get in touch with you about the wedding - your brother will call.

Jessica



So much for long story short huh???????








Jumbles Posted:

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i would have no problems bailing you out of jail

ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by Jumbles

i would have no problems bailing you out of jail



ditto

i wont hi-jack your thread but my FSIL is a piece of work too
davenjess Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde


Posted by Jumbles

i would have no problems bailing you out of jail



ditto

i wont hi-jack your thread but my FSIL is a piece of work too



Please by all means - make me feel better with your FSIL story....
RadiantBride Posted:

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I am saving my money to bail you out of jail!!!!!!!!!! UUGHHHKKK

SN2BMRSBURTE Posted:

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Sorry to crash, I just wanted to ask if FH knows about the drama? That would suk if those e-mails cause drama between him and his sister, or family....if they are even close....

Anyway...good luck, hope everything works out
davenjess Posted:

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Posted by SN2BMRSBURTE

Sorry to crash, I just wanted to ask if FH knows about the drama? That would suk if those e-mails cause drama between him and his sister, or family....if they are even close....

Anyway...good luck, hope everything works out



Part of that issue with he & his sister is that in his family he has NEVER mattered. His sister got married first - gave them their first grandkids first...he has never really rated. Quite literally - he works weekends - always has, always will - he's in appliance sales. They plan HIS birthday dinner on days he can't be there and then they get mad at him for being late!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by davenjess


Posted by ant n tilde


Posted by Jumbles

i would have no problems bailing you out of jail



ditto

i wont hi-jack your thread but my FSIL is a piece of work too



Please by all means - make me feel better with your FSIL story....



well since you asked

PLEASE DONT QUOTE THIS I MAY HAVE LURKERS:

I picked out my BM dresses TWO MONTHS AGO so everyone would have a chance to go out and et them at their leisure. I sent out a Bridal Party Newsletter to everyone with all of the information the DAY I picked them out. I have talked to her repeatedly about them. I told her to order by the middle of July ( playing it safe) but I told her that if they weren't ordered by Aug 1st they would not be here in time and I wouldn't have a BP bc they wouldn't order any of the dresses ( lie on my part )
so, today AUGUST SECOND she calls me and asks 'hey where are the dresses?' so I give her all the info. She calls the place and they give her an appt for MONDAY. I call them and they said 'oh no she can come in today she may have to wait ten minutes or so' So I call her back and say ' YAY YOU CAN GO TODAY' and she tells me 'oh i am sorry, i am on the north shore at my sister's house so i dont think i can go' Um as far as SHE knows, right now I can't have a BP bc the dresses werent ordered.


THEN she insists that her daughter ( my 5 yr old FG) wers a tiara. So I told her that I dont want the FGs wearing a tiara - since when does anyone but the bride pick out the head gear? in the Bridal party newsletter it said 'THE FG MAY WEAR A HEADBAND OR BABY'S BREATH IN HER HAIR' yeah she STILL insists that her daughter wear a tiara! Oh yeah and did i mention it is a BRIDAL tiara. . . that SHE wore to HER OWN wedding and it is BIGGER than MY tiara?

davenjess Posted:

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Oh my God... I am soo sorry... I had the same problem with Kim & her dress!!!!!! We wound up paying for it and she supposedly mailed out the check yesterday - and if she did that - we'd have it today - which we do NOT....

Stick to your guns on the tiara - no way!! Offer to make the FG a lovely headband out of flowers or something...or maybe give her a wand to feel special - but NO WAY can she wear a tiara!!!!

It's like we're soooo close in date and have sooo many of the same issues!!!
SN2BMRSBURTE Posted:

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Posted by davenjess


Posted by SN2BMRSBURTE

Sorry to crash, I just wanted to ask if FH knows about the drama? That would suk if those e-mails cause drama between him and his sister, or family....if they are even close....

Anyway...good luck, hope everything works out



Part of that issue with he & his sister is that in his family he has NEVER mattered. His sister got married first - gave them their first grandkids first...he has never really rated. Quite literally - he works weekends - always has, always will - he's in appliance sales. They plan HIS birthday dinner on days he can't be there and then they get mad at him for being late!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



That sounds like my best friend, she was always treated like that too, her two sisters got everything, and she always got the crap end of the stick....that stinks...sorry...I really do hope everything works out!

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