FUTURE SIL IS A 'AS&HOLE'-KINDA LONG

Original post by DUCKS2001

May 05, 2006 09:26 PM

OK MY FH'S SIL IS MORE THAN AN A@@ NOW THAN EVER

1 . SHE DROPS OUT OF MY WEDDING
2 HIS GRANDFATHER PASSES AWAY
3. SHE IS A BI**H TO ME.

NOW MY FH'S OTHER BROTHER HIS GF USED TO BE SO NICE AND SWEET SHE IS IN WEDDING

SHE IGNORES ME NOW AND CHATS WITH SIL ,......SIL IS A STUCK UP FAKE PERSON. AND I JUST FELT AWEFUL FOR THE PAST 2 DAYS AT THE FUNERAL

I FELT LIKE AN OUTCAST AND ITS SO CHILDISH, MY FINACE WAS SO GOOD TO ME AND SAID 'DONT WORRY THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS IS THAT I AM MARRYING YOU AND I LOVE YOU'

THAT MADE ME FEEL A BIT BETTER

BUT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SHE WANTS TO GO IN THE LIMO NOW AFTER SHE DROPPED OUT ... HIS MOM AND DAD ARE NOW THINKING OF GETTING ANOTHER LIMO FOR HER... I HAVE A HUMMER

I AM SO AGGREVATED!

SORRY SO LONG HAD TO RELEASE STRESS

serendipity0680 Posted: May 06, 2006 01:27 PM

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People suck! They always try to find a way to take control of your day. I would just try to ignore the whole thing because their goal maybe to aggrevate you. But she defiinetly doesn't deserve to right to change her mind about being in the wedding.

DUCKS2001 Posted: May 06, 2006 01:32 PM

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ugh i have such a headache i need to go out and relax... a margarita sounds good right now

autumn Posted: May 06, 2006 01:53 PM

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Posted by pavum

she def. doesn't deserve to get any attention on your big day!

she shouldnt be in your limo and she shouldn't get a seperate limo either!!

ugh...thank God that FH is such a sweety what a keeper!

Ditto, Christine I am so sorry to hear FH grandpa passed away. How is Chris doing? FM me if you need to talk.

Danacm80 Posted: May 06, 2006 02:44 PM

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Definitely TELL HER OFF!!! Put her in her place. If you don't want to yell & scream at her then don't, but I would be VERY firm and blunt about it, as well as your FH should be. Who is SHE or ANYONE to determine the limo's you want for YOUR wedding and how many etc. That is BS!!!! I would be royally pissed at her and also your future in laws if they are letting this happen. I want to go slap her for you!!!! haha
Good Luck!!! I'm sure in the end everything will work out.

hsacks23r Posted: May 06, 2006 05:14 PM

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youv GOT mail

sr081906 Posted: May 06, 2006 05:40 PM

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I would not change my plan. But if she wants to get a limo just for her, why not? She would be the laugh of the party. Like she is some kind of queen of something. Now she would have to be alone in that limo. No parents there. Why should they go with her? It's her decision to be out of the original plan. I would NOT let the FIL go with her.

She can get a limo but she cannot take any family member that you planned to be with you.

This is not her wedding and her wishes.

DUCKS2001 Posted: May 06, 2006 06:24 PM

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I AM NOT BOWING DOWN FH MOM CALLED ME AND I EXPLAINED HOW I FELT. UGH WE ARE SO STRESSED AND WE SHOULD NOT BE

I TOLD HER THAT THIS IS OUR DAY NOT HERS AND WE ARE MAKING THE DECIISION NOT HER THAT IS FSIL

FH HATES HER EVEN MORE NOW..........

DanaMZ Posted: May 06, 2006 10:42 PM

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ugh I know it must really s uck, but all your planning is not down the drain....you will still have a beautiful day whatever car she is in. I know it is hard because your FIL's are paying. But please don't let her get the better of you and ruin YOUR DAY!!