getting a little too frustrated

JAAMS Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:50 AM

getting a little too frustrated

I know I posted about this a few weeks ago, but I'm getting angry again. I started collecting addresses for STDs a month and a half ago. I'm missing a couple of fh's friends, a couple from my family, and close to 40 of fh's family. No one seems to know where these people live!

I'm getting to my wits end with trying to find these d@mn things

ETA: I've resorted to hunting people down on facebook and send the ever so awkward 'Hi I know you don't know me, but I'm Eric's fiance and I need your address....'

brittndave Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:55 AM

Re: getting a little too frustrated

did you try looking for them online?

MikesBride2B Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:55 AM

Re: getting a little too frustrated

Honestly I'd just send out the ones that you have...and send to FIL's as well. Once it shows up and they realize that you've sent them out and anyone who's address they didn't give you hasn't gotten one they'll get their asssses in gear.

Sorry you're dealing with this crap

JAAMS Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:56 AM

Re: getting a little too frustrated

Posted by MikesBride2B

Honestly I'd just send out the ones that you have...and send to FIL's as well. Once it shows up and they realize that you've sent them out and anyone who's address they didn't give you hasn't gotten one they'll get their asssses in gear.

Sorry you're dealing with this crap

I'm really tempted to do that

JAAMS Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:56 AM

Re: getting a little too frustrated

Posted by brittndave

did you try looking for them online?

i don't even have last names for most of these people

that's how bad it is

not sure why we're inviting them if we don't have their last name, address, or a phone # to call and ask what their address is

brittndave Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:58 AM

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that's odd ... you would typically know ppls last names if you were close enough to them to want to invite them to your child's wedding

tell them if they don't have the address to you by nov. 1st they're not being invited

Junebride2010 Posted: Oct 08, 2009 11:01 AM

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FH was aggravating me when I was doing my stds. He had a couple of people on the list that he didnt even know their proper first name let alone last name. I told him no last name, no invite! He got them for me with in the hour .
I mean why would i want someone at my wedding if we don't even know their last names!

JAAMS Posted: Oct 08, 2009 11:02 AM

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I agree with you girls! No clue why we are inviting these people if we can't get in touch with them.

I think I'm going to give FH a deadline, and if I don't have the addresses, they aren't coming. B/c I am getting seriously annoyed.

He promised me I would have ALL of them by the end of the week. That's 2 days from now. Let's see what happens.

jcreilly Posted: Oct 08, 2009 11:04 AM

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omg thats annoying, Im sorry We had all our address on FH computer and right after we sent out the STD his computer crashed and we now have to started from scratch and it took FH for ever to get all the address for his friends( co-workers), I think FMil had all hers in an address book but its going to drive me crazy!!