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Getting married in 4 days and ppl cancel now?!

IrishCro Posted:

Getting married in 4 days and ppl cancel now?!

***? We are getting married Saturday, and have had four people drop out since yesterday, for various reasons. My aunt is pissing me off most of all because her bratty kids basically can't be bothered to attend now, so I am out $300 AND that puts us under our minimum :(

We paid for 131 guests, minimum is 130. The venue said they'd roll our vendors into guests spots, but are they going to reimburse if for the guest and two vendors ($210) we already paid for? Can we ask for that money to go towards tips? UGH.
jackieee Posted:

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people suckkk...talk to your RH. i hope they work with you!
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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bleh, that sukcs!

can you invite some LIW girls to replace your cousins?

BriansWifey Posted:

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it wouldnt hurt to ask!
our rh owed us money back too and we used it towards tips... im sure theyd do the same for u too.
and yes, people suuuck!
jmgoncal Posted:

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Wow that is so irritating.
halfbaked Posted:

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Ugh that's a pain. I asked my RH when the last chance was to change the number- it was the Tuesday before the Friday wedding. I'm not sure if it varies between RHs.

But at least they told you beforehand rather than not showing up on the day... hopefully you can get your $$ back!
tmcnair414 Posted:

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That really sux, hopefully the RH can work something out with you.
daniellek730 Posted:

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We were not only 1 person under our minimum but 6 people were no shows!

It is what it is. We just went with it. It's your day and you've spent this much so far, whats $300?
SummerBride10 Posted:

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Ughhh thats soo annoying!!! I'd talk to the RH and see if they can do anything for you.

JenBill61210 Posted:

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i hear ya, i anticipate this happening to me too... dont worry you will have a fabulous day!
canmigs Posted:

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People are awful!!! But...you will have an amazing day so try not to worry about it!
marinai7 Posted:

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I'm sorry date twin - people are so incosiderate.

Soon2BRomeo Posted:

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People Suc k but what can you do it happens.

Lady12 Posted:

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This happened to us. We were in fact changing our seating chart and making new seating cards up until they night before the wedding! We had a 3 people get sick, another one, a cop, got an emergency shift... it was a mess. We ended up filling those seats with people who wanted to bring someone and were willing to attend at the last minute so it worked out, but it was a headache because we had to change some seats around!

AngnShaun Posted:

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ohh no...

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