I feel like I have done nothing for the wedding. I know I have time, but I feel like I should be doing more. I have started to feel anxious and overwhelmed.
Thanks for listening!
SIBride06
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Hollie.. Im sure thats a natural feeling. Are all your vendors booked?? Did you order your dress? Everything will turn out perfect. You have our support ! We are all looking forward to your wedding. Its going to be awesome!
SuzBride
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That is definitely natural. I still have SO much time, and I find myself panicky whenever I think about what I still need to do! Before I was engaged, I never realized how much planning goes into weddings!
kissy27
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Hollie, I know EXACTLY what you are going through! when I hit 199 days, I freaked because I feel like I have so much to do & that I am running out of time. In reality I still have 6 months! Have you made a checklist & timeline?? That is on my agenda today!
The last month I have been so caught up in my house, I completely forgot about wedding planning! As long as you have the BIG items booked & done, we will all be fine!
hmpena
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the only thing left to do is limos... we'll be booking them on Wed. Dress is ordered and should be in by the end of the month. Favors are in, invites are in the works (should have another sample this week) and we are about to do our final guest list. In my mind I have an idea about what needs to be done. However I am scared that it won't get done. It's the little things that are scaring me, like finding something to put my favors in. I don't know why I am stressing so much...
kissy27
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Posted by hmpena
the only thing left to do is limos... we'll be booking them on Wed. Dress is ordered and should be in by the end of the month. Favors are in, invites are in the works (should have another sample this week) and we are about to do our final guest list. In my mind I have an idea about what needs to be done. However I am scared that it won't get done. It's the little things that are scaring me, like finding something to put my favors in. I don't know why I am stressing so much...
That is what I am stressing about, the little things...Everyone that I speak with that is a past bride tells me that is what makes everyone panic. You think you have everything under control & then you sweat the little things. You seem to have everything lined up & in order. Don't sweat it too much! You will find something to put your favors in. Why not get some organza bags from Orientaltrading.com & attach a poem or something. Make it as simple as possible, so you don't stress too much
Remember, we are all here for you I am in the same boat, not a fun feeling!
JanuaryBride06
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I was seriously thinking the SAME things last night. But we still have a little over three months and it will all go smoothly. No worries!
JessicaM.
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hey sweetie...I am sure both you and Januarybride are going bonkers...but the best thing to do is to make a list.
just write down everything you would want to do, booking, diy etc...and then give yourself a reasonable time frame for each. I get easily overwhelmed in my head...but once I put pen to paper, somehow everything is put into perspective...
good luck...and remember, we are here to help!
enjft
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Being the perfect planner that you are I am sure everything will run smoothly, plus you have all of us for support.
mariela2006
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you just have to take a deep breath and try to relax. i think its normal to feel the way you are feeling. think happy thoughts.............................. ......cheese......mojitos......
kellwolfe
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DOnt you worry Hollie ...you do have everything under controll its just cause its getting close
PrincessConsuela
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hollie ill make you feel better.
umm didnt get florist yet didnt get wedding bands yet i didnt order invites didnt order favor boxes didnt make my envelope box yet no shoes not tiara no veil
and the list goes on and on and on and on
oh yeah no video yet either
your wayyyy ahead of me
cindyandkevin
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Just try to relax, Hollie!! I know it seems like it's right around the corner, and in a way you can't wait, but you really do have plenty of time!!! Just make a list of everything that's left to do, put them in priority order, and then work from there. You sound like you've got things well under control, don't stress it!!!
JP&EP
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Hollie, Im sure what you are feeling is very normal and we will probably be feeling it too as we get closer to our dates.
I'm sure you are right on schedule with all the things that need to be done. Relax, (I know easier said then done). Just remind us that it's normal to feel this way when we start getting nervous.
MrsFelix
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I know exactly how you feel. I think we all go through this kind of anxiety. I'm sure everything will be perfect!!!!
hmpena
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Thanks for your support ladies! Sometimes it just gets overwhelming! I really need to take some time for me (which I never have) and figure out where I want to go and what I want to buy. thanks for putting up with me!
Goldi1021
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I know how you feel. I feel like I should be doing something but there really isnt anything for me to do. Everything is done. Whats weird is that people seem surprised when I tell them that. Am I SUPPOSED to wait til the last minute?
