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Soooo... my family decided to add one of my cousins to the BP. And after 4 months of having her there, i just don't think i need her there. She was never in my vision. And when it comes to the wedding i really want to do what is in my heart. I already allowed my family to invite 2 more flowers girls to the party. I just don't feel okay having her there cause we aren't close... do you think it's bad if i tell my cause not to be in the wedding???????
Girl, u need to put your foot down and stop letting your family decide who is in YOUR wedding. It should be what you want. If you arent comfortable with the situation speak up.
Posted by jassy119
Girl, u need to put your foot down and stop letting your family decide who is in YOUR wedding. It should be what you want. If you arent comfortable with the situation speak up.
Your so right!! I'm trying to please everyone,
Posted by jassy119
Girl, u need to put your foot down and stop letting your family decide who is in YOUR wedding. It should be what you want. If you arent comfortable with the situation speak up.
Posted by jassy119
Girl, u need to put your foot down and stop letting your family decide who is in YOUR wedding. It should be what you want. If you arent comfortable with the situation speak up.
If my family invited someone to be in my wedding without me okay'ing it, they would get an earful!!!! That wouldn't work. You're the bride...YOUR day, YOUR WAY!
They didn't invite my cousin, they told me to put her in the wedding. Which I put her in last minute after I sent out my ' will you be my BM' cards and BP G2G.
They didn't invite my cousin, they told me to put her in the wedding. Which I put her in last minute after I sent out my ' will you be my BM' cards and BP G2G.
Posted by jassy119
Girl, u need to put your foot down and stop letting your family decide who is in YOUR wedding. It should be what you want. If you arent comfortable with the situation speak up.
I would sit down with your family and speak with them. My parents have some say in who will be invited to my wedding because they are footing a good amount of the bill. They do not, however, have a say in who will share my day with me. That is/should be ultimately up to you and your FH and they need to realize/understand that.
