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KC1031 Posted: Apr 09, 2013 08:58 AM+

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Posted: Apr 09, 2013 08:58 AM

Getting SUPER nervous...

Long story short, we invited far more people than I ever wanted to have at my wedding (about 260). That being said, our RSVP date is May 3rd and we already have close to 100 Yes responses and 0 No's. Anyone have experience with RSVPs - do the No's tend to come in last minute? I am getting nervous that there are going to be hardly any No's!!

ladygoodman Posted: Apr 09, 2013 09:01 AM+

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Posted: Apr 09, 2013 09:01 AM

Getting SUPER nervous...

Crashing. I handled the rsvps for my brothers wedding and the yes responses tended to come in earlier than the nos

mf324 Posted: Apr 09, 2013 09:16 AM+

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Posted: Apr 09, 2013 09:16 AM

Getting SUPER nervous...

I agree.. My nos came in much closer to the RSVP date

hedwards0524 Posted: Apr 09, 2013 09:17 AM+

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Posted: Apr 09, 2013 09:17 AM

Getting SUPER nervous...

I'm nervous about this too. We invited 36 people more than what we really wanted but are hoping they say no. I haven't gotten back any responses yet but I'm getting nervous as well

Pinkisles Posted: Apr 09, 2013 09:28 AM+

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Posted: Apr 09, 2013 09:28 AM

Getting SUPER nervous...

Most people that said No to mine didn't even bother sending it out, until I harassed them. You will have plenty of No's, don't worry!

JulesMarie27 Posted: Apr 10, 2013 04:21 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2013 04:21 PM

Getting SUPER nervous...

I invited 210 and I'm already up to 30 Nos and my RSVP is Friday! You will def get some nos. I got 4 in the mail today!

JojoBride Posted: Apr 10, 2013 04:29 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2013 04:29 PM

Getting SUPER nervous...

I agree...don't worry! ALSO...people tend to leave RSVP's to the last minute!

Karin Posted: Apr 10, 2013 09:02 PM+

Karin MEMBER SINCE: 3/12 TOTAL POSTS : 1113 WEDDING DATE: Sep 21, 2013

Posted: Apr 10, 2013 09:02 PM

Getting SUPER nervous...

Ugh, I know this will be driving me crazy when our invites are out. So worried that 1) no one will come 2) everyone will come! LOL

rknieto Posted: Apr 13, 2013 10:42 PM+

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Posted: Apr 13, 2013 10:42 PM

Re: Getting SUPER nervous...

I agree. My dad said it best lol: it would be rude of them to say no right away. Take a look at your calendar, try to make it work. If you can't, then send your no in. Only after you're positive you can't make your schedule work. Saying no right away is just saying, thanks but no thanks.

sblomq1 Posted: Apr 14, 2013 09:33 AM+

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Posted: Apr 14, 2013 09:33 AM

Re: Getting SUPER nervous...

Posted by Pinkisles

Most people that said No to mine didn't even bother sending it out, until I harassed them. You will have plenty of No's, don't worry!

this was exactly our experience. our RSVP due date was this past friday. we only got 4 no's in the mail, the rest we had to call and ask for them to tell us no. so annoying, just stick the card back in the mail, is it really that difficult!