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Gift or no?

Collweenie21 Posted:

Gift or no?

One of my cousins who came to my eparty also got engaged recently. My mom said I should send them a gift from their registry, even though there is no eparty..... yet. Do you think I should do this? And then what if they have an eparty??? How much should I spend? Thanks in advance.

jgl Posted:

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1. i'm thinking if you are close to this cousin you should prob send a gift even if there is no party. We recieved some from people who couldnt attend. Plus its your cousin.. thats family.

2. if she does have an eparty i would say gift wise 50-100 if you are giving money 75-100 or 150 depending on your relationship.
mattysgurl616 Posted:

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I say wait a little, Maybe send a card saying congrats. I dont know if this is someone who u are close to that you talk to or not. If it is try to feel her out if shes going to have a e party. Hope that helps.
Collweenie21 Posted:

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Thanks yeah, maybe I'll feel his fiance out a bit to see if they are thinking of having an eparty.

emcheung Posted:

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why don't you just ask her if she's going to have an engagement party. i would be honest and tell her you want to get her an engagement gift, but if she's planning on having a party then you will give it to her then. i've gotten engagement gifts 8 months after our engagement. but i also have a two year engagement.

Snowflake08 Posted:

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i would send a gift and if they wind up having a party, you already gave them something

MikeandJess Posted:

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send a gift and if they do have an eparty that just means you don't have to get them another gift

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