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Gift question

StaceyWill Posted:

Gift question

Ok so this is a bit of a weird one. One of my guests RSVP’s no and sent a check, then a few days later called my mom and said that they could make it after all. So my question is- what do I do with the check? Do I deposit in now or wait until after the wedding? TIA
grkbarbie Posted:

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deposit it now b4 u loose it

SummerBride10 Posted:

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deposit it now

christine2010 Posted:

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I would call the person & ask what they want you to do. Some people feel strange walking into a party without an envelope in hand.

AdriandSteve Posted:

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Deposit it now. If I were the guest I'd want you too cuz you'd be messing up my checkbook lol. (Yes... i'm a rare one who still keeps and balances a checkbook almost daily)

AgaBride062610 Posted:

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can you call them and ask them? do you think they might give you more $ at the wedding?

StaceyWill Posted:

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Posted by AgaBride062610

can you call them and ask them? do you think they might give you more $ at the wedding?



I feel sort of weird calling them. Maybe I'll have my mom call since they called her in the first place.

Thanks a ton girlies!!!
Nina1010 Posted:

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This happened to us. We sent a thank you and deposited the check.

SoonToBMrsC Posted:

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I would definitely call them and ask. They may feel funny walking i empty handed.

marinai7 Posted:

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I would just call and ask them.

ourwedding9510 Posted:

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Posted by Nina1010

This happened to us. We sent a thank you and deposited the check.



That's a GREAT idea!

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