I've received an RSVP - No answer with a gift! Do I send a Thank You card now or wait til after the wedding?
i'm waiting until after so i can send a nice thank you card. granted it may look rude bc so much time has passed but the deserve the same thank you
Someone who had initally responded Yes, just called my parents last week & said they are unable to attend. She sent us a wedding card with a check. I called her personally to thank her. Will also be sending a thank you card after the wedding.
i have gotten checks and i was going to wait til after the wedding. lately though ive been feeling guilty bc some of those were sent right when the invites went out and now its been awhile. I might just send the thank yous now if I can find time to write them!
I think technically you have 6 months (or maybe even a year) to send a thank you card for a gift. Guests also have 6 months or a year after your wedding date to send you a gift. I havent found this documented but I was told by a coworker who was recently married.
I'd wait until after the wedding
Posted by MrsC2010
i have gotten checks and i was going to wait til after the wedding. lately though ive been feeling guilty bc some of those were sent right when the invites went out and now its been awhile. I might just send the thank yous now if I can find time to write them!
We wrote out all our thank you cards to people who gave us gifts prior to the wedding. The morning of the wedding, we mailed out those thank you cards...it saved us a lot of time after the wedding!
Posted by Its2Snappy
Posted by MrsC2010
i have gotten checks and i was going to wait til after the wedding. lately though ive been feeling guilty bc some of those were sent right when the invites went out and now its been awhile. I might just send the thank yous now if I can find time to write them!
Would you send a simple Thank You card now and then a nice one, like a photo one, after the wedding? I feel bad making them wait, but then I feel silly not sending the 'nice' thank you card.
Hmm.. Maybe I'll make a few Thank You cards with one of our E-pics. What do you all think?
I'd just wait til after the wedding and do them all the same time.
I got some shower gifts already, though I haven't had my shower...I'm waiting until after the shower is over to send thank yous....hth.
i sent out thank yous as soon as i received gifts. i didn't want to forget about it and i didn't want people to think i forgot if i ended up waiting till after my shower or after my wedding. i just think its better to get it out of the way as soon as possible to save yourself time and stress later on.
im sending mine out now
I received a check from my dad's cousin. I asked him to call them and let them know we received it and are gracious but are waiting until after the wedding to send all thank-you's so we can send them a picture.
