i have to ask and im sorry to be depressing but the 3-4 weeks and closer, before your wedding, did you feel like you could cry at any given time, feel almost depressed and so overwhelmed like your life was going insane. fh and i are not even doing really well.
im just extremely stressed and upset and could sit here and cry
i just want to know if anyone of you felt like this too because of all the wedding stuff and then real life on top of it?
Lsorrent
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Big hugs Lorin!!!!!!!
pipermaru
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um hello i'm at 9 weeks and i feel that way
KerriJohnS
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yesssssssssssssssss it's the biggest world wind right before the actual moment of marriage! all the craziness accumulates and just gets intense and insane during the last few weeks leading up to the big day. you know when it's super close because the intensity of it all is at it's peak!
just breathe girl!! take it in and enjoy it....for in a few weeks... these days and moment's will be long gone and never to return again. so remember to embrace it all.... even the real crazy parts.
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I was really stress the month before the wedding, but after the RD I was much better, they only two who saw me stressing really was Dh and my mom. I actually felt better when I cried one day, sometime you justneed to cry! Don't worry it will be okay just breath and do one thing at time maybe you should take 2-3 days off from wedding stufff and just hang out with your Fh.
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thank you all so much for you love and support! i do feel a little better today...
i love all of you so much
Kimbiz1
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Holy cow did I (we) ever!!! I think it's normal and if I believed everyone who told me the last three months were hell, I would have eloped!!!!
Hang in there, it is so worth it. Married life is awesome!!
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I just keep thinking to myself, it's ALMOST done. Then I get to enjoy the fruition of all my work and spend the rest of my life with FH. (And go to Bermuda! ) Hang in there!
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I'm sure everything will work out fine.
meg922
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The last few weeks were certainly an emotional roller coaster for me. While I was excited to be getting married to DH, it was very surreal to contemplate that when I left the house I had lived in my entire life to go to the church, I would no longer be living there. I was also the last of my siblings to get married, so I felt a little guilty about leaving my parents with an empty nest. And, as stupid as it sounds, I felt horrible that I couldn't explain to my dog (really my parents' dog) why I'd be leaving her!
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i think its totally normal to feel that way. i cant say that i felt that way because i feel we were pretty good with keeping the stress level down when we were that close however we did hit those patches months prior to the wedding.
try not to let things get to you because they prob arent worth the stress, learn to let the little things go.
have hope! its almost over!!
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Havent gotten married yet but you look like you need some hugs.
agreed.
just try to take thing one day at a time and nt to get over whelmed... also take a day or 2 off from planning... i i talked all wedding all the time my FH would probably flip out...i ration him...
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i acutally had a breakdown the other night and we ended up arguing, and i have 11 weeks.... its stressful. we have alot of FH family drama now too and it has caused alot of crying and stress. hang in there!
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One day at a time -
BLBride
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just wanted to say good luck and that I can understand how you are feeling... things are good now but around the holidays/January when we really had a lot to get done and were constantly running from appt to appt it got really rough. I think its normal, even though when I was feeling that way I thought it seemed really abnormal
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At this point know I am so stressed, overworked, tired & cranky all the damn time. I constantly feel like I am going to cry & my stomach has been killing me for days. Work has been a nightmare. Since I will be off for 12 days my boss wants everything completed before I leave. Which of course is understandable but he doesn't realize just how much work there is. I also am the middle person between our office & the office that referres us some of our cases & the women i have to deal with from that office has been driving me crazy. Luckily the major planning is all completed but all the little add ons that I/we want are so overwhelming. I can not wait to be in Hawaii.
We already told everyone that our cell phones will be turned off & that we will call them.
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i'm right there with you, less then 4 weeks away and there's so much on my mind ... stress is definitely kicking in. the other day i come home from work and i see fh playing playstation... oh boy lol i didn't even say anything to him. there's so much to do and i'm the one that worries about it! i guess he's trying to help when he sees i'm quiet lol. but i know everything will be fine and back to normal, soon, real soon
