girls already married

i have to ask and im sorry to be depressing but the 3-4 weeks and closer, before your wedding, did you feel like you could cry at any given time, feel almost depressed and so overwhelmed like your life was going insane. fh and i are not even doing really well.

im just extremely stressed and upset and could sit here and cry

i just want to know if anyone of you felt like this too because of all the wedding stuff and then real life on top of it?

Havent gotten married yet but you look like you need some hugs.

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Posted by DaniandKen2010

Havent gotten married yet but you look like you need some hugs.

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agreed.

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Posted by weddingbees

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Posted by DaniandKen2010

Havent gotten married yet but you look like you need some hugs.

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agreed.

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i go through periods of stress or not...this wknd is my 2nd fitting, so we will see what happens. kinda scared about that

but yeah, after teh 7 week mark ive felt more emotional.

I think everyone gets overwhelmed. Wedding planning is so stressful

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Posted by bluj786

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Posted by weddingbees

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Posted by DaniandKen2010

Havent gotten married yet but you look like you need some hugs.

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agreed.

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same here



Hang in there honey. It'll all be worth it in the end!

I was exactly like this, unfortunately. I thought I'd be so happy in the upcoming weeks to my wedding but there was so much drama, tension and stress, I couldn't enjoy it. Even with just days to the wedding, DH and I were arguing and he was saying 'maybe we should call it off' but we both knew that they were just words because of the stress we were enduring because of family issues, and I was majorly stressed because of work and school issues.

The upcoming weeks will probably be tough to get through if you're in a tough spot but it's gonna make your wedding sooo much better! Trust me! Every day leading up to my wedding was a challenge because of all stupid issues and then the morning of my wedding, I woke up and didn't even care about anything else but marrying my best friend. You'll feel that way too! Hang in there!! Please feel free to FM me if you need to talk!!

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Posted by scatteredx12

I was exactly like this, unfortunately. I thought I'd be so happy in the upcoming weeks to my wedding but there was so much drama, tension and stress, I couldn't enjoy it. Even with just days to the wedding, DH and I were arguing and he was saying 'maybe we should call it off' but we both knew that they were just words because of the stress we were enduring because of family issues, and I was majorly stressed because of work and school issues.

The upcoming weeks will probably be tough to get through if you're in a tough spot but it's gonna make your wedding sooo much better! Trust me! Every day leading up to my wedding was a challenge because of all stupid issues and then the morning of my wedding, I woke up and didn't even care about anything else but marrying my best friend. You'll feel that way too! Hang in there!! Please feel free to FM me if you need to talk!!

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thank you so much for those words. they really mean a lot and you girls mean so much because absolutely noone understands and would listen like you girlies do. im just stressed and ive felt a crazy amount of stress in my life and hard times but its never gone on this long so its just hard. thank you for all the hugs...you guys made me cry (good tears)

I'm not married yet, but I wanted to give you these Hang in there girl, things will be okay...you guys probably both just need to de-stress and do some non-wedding stuff for a bit

Absolutely, I was sooo stressed out the upcoming weeks before the wedding and DH had no clue how to handle me we were constantly fitting about stupid little things for no reason other than stress. And it didn't help that DH wasn't handling any of the wedding things, so he couldn't even help with any of the things.

Just hang in there, it really is stressful leading up to the big day and causes tension for no reason. It will all be worth it on your wedding day

I felt mega-stressed around 3-4 weeks prior
I recall flying off the handle when my dad asked a simple question about the hotel.

Don't worry - the closer it gets you will feel better about things

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Posted by DaniandKen2010

Havent gotten married yet but you look like you need some hugs.

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Sorry sweetie, hang in there.

i am starting to feel that way now too... FH and I are at each others throats and my job is out of control crazy right now and i just want to sleep but i can't because i have so much on my mind and no idea how it's all gonna get done. i really do know how you feel.

Totally normal.

The month leading into the wedding was a complete whirlwind of emotions, not to mention the stress of getting all the last minute details completed.

Ummm yeah and the week of our wedding we had like 8 cancellations and had to completely re-arrange the seating chart. It was a blast.

Just take a deep breath and remember that when it's all over you'll have each other.

One thing DH did was take me out on a date night a few days before our wedding. It was such an awesome escape and great bonding time.

And PS neither of us miss wedding planning at all! LOL

Good luck!

i had some serious family issues with dh's family for our entire engagement which really wore on me during the wedding planning. then some major drama RIGHT before our wedding happened- on christmas eve actually which was like 3 weeks before my wedding. i remember feeling like i was going to just crack- and there was plenty of crying. but i also thought that i would much rather go through all the stress and heartache with the planning and dealing with other people WITH him than to have no stress without him. i am the happiest married girl out there now and i wish i couldve predicted how well things wouldve went before hand so i didnt worry so much in anticipation. haha i know i know-easier said than done. i can only say that i truly believe it was all well worth it :) but imo, being married is WAY better than being engaged! hang in there!!! it WILL be worth it!!!