Girls getting married at RH...

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

i think i am..but im not having a mass..will they still do that?

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Definitely

we're not - but again - personal preference.

we have a 30 minute window to do our entire ceremony, processional & recessional...

we're not. we get 30 min for the ceremony, and to be honest, i don't want it to be THAT long! LOL
i know that sounds unromantic but it's just not our style.

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Posted by Bella77

we're not. we get 30 min for the ceremony, and to be honest, i don't want it to be THAT long! LOL
i know that sounds unromantic but it's just not our style.

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Yeah this is kindof how I feel too.

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Posted by chrispar

I originally said that I would definitely do them but part of me now is thinking that I don't want to. I guess I will see when the time comes and I sit down with my officiant. If I do them though I want different ones no the ones that a lot of people use like Love is Patient, Love is Kind. I am not very traditional at all. I think thats why I am having a hard time with this.

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If I hear love is patient love is kind one more time.... yes it's a pretty reading but it's done at every. single. wedding. ever. JMO There are so many readings out there that are just as beautiful and can be more personal to you than just stock wedding readings. FH and I decided that if we do last minute change our minds, the reading will be something from literature, not anything religous. I don't know what you're interests are...but I've heard people do readings from Shakespeare, from lyrics to songs....if you decide to do it, do something that actually reflects the two of you. I think that's the most beautiful way to do it.

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Posted by missliss

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Posted by chrispar

I originally said that I would definitely do them but part of me now is thinking that I don't want to. I guess I will see when the time comes and I sit down with my officiant. If I do them though I want different ones no the ones that a lot of people use like Love is Patient, Love is Kind. I am not very traditional at all. I think thats why I am having a hard time with this.

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If I hear love is patient love is kind one more time.... yes it's a pretty reading but it's done at every. single. wedding. ever. JMO There are so many readings out there that are just as beautiful and can be more personal to you than just stock wedding readings. FH and I decided that if we do last minute change our minds, the reading will be something from literature, not anything religous. I don't know what you're interests are...but I've heard people do readings from Shakespeare, from lyrics to songs....if you decide to do it, do something that actually reflects the two of you. I think that's the most beautiful way to do it.

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I agree and thats really good advice. Thanks!!!!

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Posted by chrispar

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Posted by missliss

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Posted by chrispar

I originally said that I would definitely do them but part of me now is thinking that I don't want to. I guess I will see when the time comes and I sit down with my officiant. If I do them though I want different ones no the ones that a lot of people use like Love is Patient, Love is Kind. I am not very traditional at all. I think thats why I am having a hard time with this.

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If I hear love is patient love is kind one more time.... yes it's a pretty reading but it's done at every. single. wedding. ever. JMO There are so many readings out there that are just as beautiful and can be more personal to you than just stock wedding readings. FH and I decided that if we do last minute change our minds, the reading will be something from literature, not anything religous. I don't know what you're interests are...but I've heard people do readings from Shakespeare, from lyrics to songs....if you decide to do it, do something that actually reflects the two of you. I think that's the most beautiful way to do it.

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I agree and thats really good advice. Thanks!!!!

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at my cousin's wedding they read the ee cummings poem from the movie in her shoes... 'i carry you in my heart' and i got all sappy b/c my sister gave me that poem with a heart shaped pendant for my 30th bday. I think it's a great idea!!

we're not
we are really trying to keep it as short and simple as possible

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Posted by snwb08

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Posted by chrispar

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Posted by missliss

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Posted by chrispar

I originally said that I would definitely do them but part of me now is thinking that I don't want to. I guess I will see when the time comes and I sit down with my officiant. If I do them though I want different ones no the ones that a lot of people use like Love is Patient, Love is Kind. I am not very traditional at all. I think thats why I am having a hard time with this.

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If I hear love is patient love is kind one more time.... yes it's a pretty reading but it's done at every. single. wedding. ever. JMO There are so many readings out there that are just as beautiful and can be more personal to you than just stock wedding readings. FH and I decided that if we do last minute change our minds, the reading will be something from literature, not anything religous. I don't know what you're interests are...but I've heard people do readings from Shakespeare, from lyrics to songs....if you decide to do it, do something that actually reflects the two of you. I think that's the most beautiful way to do it.

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I agree and thats really good advice. Thanks!!!!

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at my cousin's wedding they read the ee cummings poem from the movie in her shoes... 'i carry you in my heart' and i got all sappy b/c my sister gave me that poem with a heart shaped pendant for my 30th bday. I think it's a great idea!!

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that is really sweet

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Posted by snwb08

at my cousin's wedding they read the ee cummings poem from the movie in her shoes... 'i carry you in my heart' and i got all sappy b/c my sister gave me that poem with a heart shaped pendant for my 30th bday. I think it's a great idea!!

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omg i always tear up watching that part of the movie
LOL

Yep, definitely doing a reading or two, for us it's everything like a ceremony in a chuch, minus the church, lol~