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Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................

Original post by AmorPeruano

.................. Forgive me for saying this but some MAJOR drama on the NW boards RIGHT NOW . Hurry before its pulled!!
PreshusSmurf Posted:

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Posted by jennandrolo
i get what your saying but also unless what youve told this person was in fm's youve basically shared it with dozens of people cuz this is a public site and anyone can access it.



See ... that's the thing ... sooooooo many girls had private FM conversations with her. She was (is? ) a very active poster on the site ....

I was looking back through my old FMs tonight because I wanted to see what info I had shared.

It makes a person a little nervous, ya know?!

PegaLega Posted:

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Posted by Sharron70


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by Sharron70

The only 'drama' thread's I've gotten involved in were those started by obvious fake brides just coming here to start trouble. Any other threads that turn into drama, I just state my honest opinon on the original subject (i.e. taking off one's shoes during the reception) or I don't get involved at all. And the 'Karen' incident was before my time.

That's not to say I don't have strongly held opinions regarding what goes on here (b2b under stress, people getting offended too easily, getting snippy with one another), but I generally stay out of it.

And the whole 'get off our board, you're not a NW' is rather childish as well. So what, you've (not .you specifically)been married 7 mos. and all of a sudden you have this infinite wisdom on married life and the universe in general that is beyond me? Give me a break



No never said that.
Lets see if I can explain what that NW board thing is all about. Please dont take it personally b/c its not a personal thing at all. The NW board we dont really talk about our weddings much at all. Some of the girls dont ever check BHB or the 07 or even 08 for that matter b/c they dont want to b/c they are over their wedding. We get upset when B2Bs post wedding related questions on NW b/c we dont want to talk about that. Those who choose to help out do by going to BHB and 07 and even 08 to help out where they can. its hard to understand until you are there-I know I didnt get it but I never posted on NW until after I was married. I posted on the 06 board or BHB and hoped there was someone out there that could help me. Its not a matter of dont come over here we dont want you-its more we dont want to answer wedding related questions b/c most of the girls dotn want to go there anymore. I hope that made sense. Me-like I already said-If I can help, I will! If I cant I move on, I always try to be helpful...even if I get involved in drama.



And I totally understand AND AGREE with the unwritten rule (actually, I think it IS written somewhere) that B2Bs shouldn't be there asking questions - that's what the BHB forum is for. I was referring specifically to this incident. Once all was said and done I was trying to stick up for the poor girl and was basically told to get lost 'grandma' (<-- yes, 'Grandma').

Please don't take this the wrong way or personally, but did an influx of teenagers get married in 2007?



not being a smart ***.....but yes
I think we were all called old bitties once by a handful of B2Bs so that is probably why that response
jennandrolo Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by Sharron70


Posted by PreshusSmurf

And as for the grand announcements about how you won't be transitioning over to the NW board after you're married .... why don't you just wait and see how you feel once you're married?


True, as by the time I'm married, most of the girls from here will (presumably) be on NW and I do feel the most connection with them. I just don't appreciate the childish, clique-y attitude that [i]appears[/i] to be there now.



You will have it too(maybe not you specifically but it will) I see it on this board everytime there is drama-the 06ers even warned us it would happen-after your wedding people tend to flock to certain people, its just the nature of the beast



i havent flocked to anyone. i feel left out lol
PegaLega Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by Sharron70


Posted by PreshusSmurf

And as for the grand announcements about how you won't be transitioning over to the NW board after you're married .... why don't you just wait and see how you feel once you're married?


True, as by the time I'm married, most of the girls from here will (presumably) be on NW and I do feel the most connection with them. I just don't appreciate the childish, clique-y attitude that [i]appears[/i] to be there now.



You will have it too(maybe not you specifically but it will) I see it on this board everytime there is drama-the 06ers even warned us it would happen-after your wedding people tend to flock to certain people, its just the nature of the beast



i havent flocked to anyone. i feel left out lol



stay that way-it keeps you neutral
Not everyone will, you will see some of us will be buddies and the next day going at it. It just happens. You will see tho, as much as we have drama of one on one or 2 on 1 or whatever...in the end we all still talk and joke with each other.
PreshusSmurf Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by Sharron70


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by Sharron70

The only 'drama' thread's I've gotten involved in were those started by obvious fake brides just coming here to start trouble. Any other threads that turn into drama, I just state my honest opinon on the original subject (i.e. taking off one's shoes during the reception) or I don't get involved at all. And the 'Karen' incident was before my time.

That's not to say I don't have strongly held opinions regarding what goes on here (b2b under stress, people getting offended too easily, getting snippy with one another), but I generally stay out of it.

And the whole 'get off our board, you're not a NW' is rather childish as well. So what, you've (not .you specifically)been married 7 mos. and all of a sudden you have this infinite wisdom on married life and the universe in general that is beyond me? Give me a break



No never said that.
Lets see if I can explain what that NW board thing is all about. Please dont take it personally b/c its not a personal thing at all. The NW board we dont really talk about our weddings much at all. Some of the girls dont ever check BHB or the 07 or even 08 for that matter b/c they dont want to b/c they are over their wedding. We get upset when B2Bs post wedding related questions on NW b/c we dont want to talk about that. Those who choose to help out do by going to BHB and 07 and even 08 to help out where they can. its hard to understand until you are there-I know I didnt get it but I never posted on NW until after I was married. I posted on the 06 board or BHB and hoped there was someone out there that could help me. Its not a matter of dont come over here we dont want you-its more we dont want to answer wedding related questions b/c most of the girls dotn want to go there anymore. I hope that made sense. Me-like I already said-If I can help, I will! If I cant I move on, I always try to be helpful...even if I get involved in drama.



And I totally understand AND AGREE with the unwritten rule (actually, I think it IS written somewhere) that B2Bs shouldn't be there asking questions - that's what the BHB forum is for. I was referring specifically to this incident. Once all was said and done I was trying to stick up for the poor girl and was basically told to get lost 'grandma' (<-- yes, 'Grandma').

Please don't take this the wrong way or personally, but did an influx of teenagers get married in 2007?



not being a smart ***.....but yes
I think we were all called old bitties once by a handful of B2Bs so that is probably why that response



I believe it was Bitter Old Hags
Sharron70 Posted:

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LOL. I guess I was taken aback by the whole thing because there are plenty of 07ers that visit here on the 08 board (such as yourself) that I found to be very friendly and helpful but even before this incident I noticed there were others that were somewhat 'you stay on your side of the fence I'll stay on mine'. Then after what went tonight, I'm like 'jeezus!'

Pfft. I hate being one of the old farts on here - sometimes I just don't get it
PegaLega Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by Sharron70

LOL. I guess I was taken aback by the whole thing because there are plenty of 07ers that visit here on the 08 board (such as yourself) that I found to be very friendly and helpful but even before this incident I noticed there were others that were somewhat 'you stay on your side of the fence I'll stay on mine'. Then after what went tonight, I'm like 'jeezus!'

Pfft. I hate being one of the old farts on here - sometimes I just don't get it



nah dont sweat it, you are a B2B regardless
But I wont lie.....I have chased some 08ers away but more for the wedding related threads.

Just dont ask if you should wash your hair the night before your wedding or the morning of on the NW board and you will be fine

ALso, I just read that thread again-the reason she barked is b/c a few 08ers got involved and didnt know the back story of this poster and not saying you cant defend her but you have to know the story-ya know?
PreshusSmurf Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by Sharron70

LOL. I guess I was taken aback by the whole thing because there are plenty of 07ers that visit here on the 08 board (such as yourself) that I found to be very friendly and helpful but even before this incident I noticed there were others that were somewhat 'you stay on your side of the fence I'll stay on mine'. Then after what went tonight, I'm like 'jeezus!'

Pfft. I hate being one of the old farts on here - sometimes I just don't get it




Ok, see, here's the thing that I think changed around this time last year on LIW .... as I see it anyway ...

The 'year' boards were always a free for all ... anyone could post there, ask questions, it was never 'really' considered 'crashing.'

But a bunch of the 07ers got tired of talking about wedding related stuff, and made a home for themselves on NW. As the year went on, NW became a lot more active than 07 ... so the 07 boards basically died down.

So, now the 08ers, etc. *think* the only place to find the 07ers is on the NW boards.

But as Peggie pointed out, those of us who DO want to talk about weddings and answer questions WILL visit BHB/08/09, etc. to help out and 'pay it forward.'

Those who don't feel like it (and those who DO, but need a break) like to hang out on the NW board where we can just continue chatting with our friends about 'real life' (life that isn't wedding related).

I don't think that was the case in previous years .... at least not in 06 ... maybe it was all the pregnancies that kept them bonding and chatting on the 06 board?

jennandrolo Posted:

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Posted by AmorPeruano

Whew!!! I feel better....cause your one of my favorite people on here!!!



aww thank u..ur one of mine too!
debismom Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by Sharron70


Posted by PreshusSmurf

And as for the grand announcements about how you won't be transitioning over to the NW board after you're married .... why don't you just wait and see how you feel once you're married?


True, as by the time I'm married, most of the girls from here will (presumably) be on NW and I do feel the most connection with them. I just don't appreciate the childish, clique-y attitude that [i]appears[/i] to be there now.



You will have it too(maybe not you specifically but it will) I see it on this board everytime there is drama-the 06ers even warned us it would happen-after your wedding people tend to flock to certain people, its just the nature of the beast



i havent flocked to anyone. i feel left out lol



Excuse me, ladies, I need to tell Jennifer something. I was thinking of you tonight, and wondering where you were? Mary MOB
PegaLega Posted:

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Night ladies.....have a fantabulous monday and dont forget to listen to NKOTB on your way to work
Sharron70 Posted:

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I know, but it's the frikken Internets! When you get involved in a social networking site such as this or MySpace or anything else, you have to know that you're taking a risk by sharing info or even heartfelt feelings with 'strangers'.

True, I didn't know the whole back story but I've seen her reply to many posts in the few months I've been here and it just seemed to get more vicious as if they were mad at themselves for letting her dupe them and were projecting that onto her.

Meh. It's done. But I do feel bad for the girl. Like I said, I don't know the whole backstory but I have my own ideas about the whole HM pics.
jennandrolo Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by debismom


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by Sharron70


Posted by PreshusSmurf

And as for the grand announcements about how you won't be transitioning over to the NW board after you're married .... why don't you just wait and see how you feel once you're married?


True, as by the time I'm married, most of the girls from here will (presumably) be on NW and I do feel the most connection with them. I just don't appreciate the childish, clique-y attitude that [i]appears[/i] to be there now.



You will have it too(maybe not you specifically but it will) I see it on this board everytime there is drama-the 06ers even warned us it would happen-after your wedding people tend to flock to certain people, its just the nature of the beast



i havent flocked to anyone. i feel left out lol



Excuse me, ladies, I need to tell Jennifer something. I was thinking of you tonight, and wondering where you were? Mary MOB



aww mary you always make me ...i was in new jersey seeing my new godson for the first time. i also really spent alot of time with his older sister (shes 3) for the first time and im in love with the both of them
jennandrolo Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by PegaLega

Night ladies.....have a fantabulous monday and dont forget to listen to NKOTB on your way to work



night!! ooo u just reminded me to go listen to their new song i havent heard it yet.
PegaLega Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by PegaLega

Night ladies.....have a fantabulous monday and dont forget to listen to NKOTB on your way to work



night!! ooo u just reminded me to go listen to their new song i havent heard it yet.



SHUT UP where is it? Ive been searchign and cant find it
debismom Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by debismom


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by Sharron70


Posted by PreshusSmurf

And as for the grand announcements about how you won't be transitioning over to the NW board after you're married .... why don't you just wait and see how you feel once you're married?


True, as by the time I'm married, most of the girls from here will (presumably) be on NW and I do feel the most connection with them. I just don't appreciate the childish, clique-y attitude that [i]appears[/i] to be there now.



You will have it too(maybe not you specifically but it will) I see it on this board everytime there is drama-the 06ers even warned us it would happen-after your wedding people tend to flock to certain people, its just the nature of the beast



i havent flocked to anyone. i feel left out lol



Excuse me, ladies, I need to tell Jennifer something. I was thinking of you tonight, and wondering where you were? Mary MOB



aww mary you always make me ...i was in new jersey seeing my new godson for the first time. i also really spent alot of time with his older sister (shes 3) for the first time and im in love with the both of them



Awwww, got any pics? Mary MOB
jennandrolo Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by PegaLega

Night ladies.....have a fantabulous monday and dont forget to listen to NKOTB on your way to work



night!! ooo u just reminded me to go listen to their new song i havent heard it yet.



SHUT UP where is it? Ive been searchign and cant find it



someone posted it on ohnotheydidnt with the youtube video...im searching it now
PegaLega Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by PegaLega

Night ladies.....have a fantabulous monday and dont forget to listen to NKOTB on your way to work



night!! ooo u just reminded me to go listen to their new song i havent heard it yet.



SHUT UP where is it? Ive been searchign and cant find it



someone posted it on ohnotheydidnt with the youtube video...im searching it now



did you find it? I sooooo need a link dammit i need to go to bed but I cant until i hear this
jennandrolo Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by PegaLega

Night ladies.....have a fantabulous monday and dont forget to listen to NKOTB on your way to work



night!! ooo u just reminded me to go listen to their new song i havent heard it yet.



SHUT UP where is it? Ive been searchign and cant find it



someone posted it on ohnotheydidnt with the youtube video...im searching it now



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M8Y_lTk29JY
jennandrolo Posted:

Re: Girls!!! Hurry !!!!.............................


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by PegaLega


Posted by jennandrolo


Posted by PegaLega

Night ladies.....have a fantabulous monday and dont forget to listen to NKOTB on your way to work



night!! ooo u just reminded me to go listen to their new song i havent heard it yet.



SHUT UP where is it? Ive been searchign and cant find it



someone posted it on ohnotheydidnt with the youtube video...im searching it now



did you find it? I sooooo need a link dammit i need to go to bed but I cant until i hear this



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M8Y_lTk29JY

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