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Posted by jennandrolo
i never thought id say that i may not come back on here after the year is over but thats what im leaning towards.
Posted by jennandrolo
ive been gone all day and like usual missed the drama and im glad this time i did. i caught up on it (i didnt read every single page cuz i have no time and no patience) and can say i am a bit disgusted with this site right now. i think people have been taking it WAAAAAAY too serious.
i guess im just the type to come on here, read posts, maybe post here and there and thats it. i havent gotten too involved with people or too involved with the drama. i dont like it when the ladies team up and gang up on people. this site shouldnt be taken so seriously. what i read today made me look at people so differently. i never thought id say that i may not come back on here after the year is over but thats what im leaning towards.
Posted by PegaLega
Im crashing-not to defend anything really, just to say that I know there have been a couple of times when there has been drama on this board for things I thought were immature, the comments get immature that is just the way it goes.
Yes it does get nasty. The issue isnt that anyone has been duped-its that we have shared our weddings and lives with girls on here thru out the whole time we post-so to know that someone we spent time replying to and trying to help could possibly have been making up stories hurts some of our feelings. Trust me we dont 'gang' up on anyone. ALOT of girls agreed that we all felt the stories were twisted and not following properly.
I stay b/c regardless of how mean people can be if I can help one B2B that is good enough for me. Like I said-Im not defending b/c yes it got out of hand-but you shouldnt throw stones when you live in glass houses-I remember the karen incident and there were girls who were upset thinking she was a fellow 08er. So before you jump on us being immature (which is rightfully so as we are) step back and take a look at your next drama thread and see if you dont think the same thing
Posted by AmorPeruano
Posted by jennandrolo
ive been gone all day and like usual missed the drama and im glad this time i did. i caught up on it (i didnt read every single page cuz i have no time and no patience) and can say i am a bit disgusted with this site right now. i think people have been taking it WAAAAAAY too serious.
i guess im just the type to come on here, read posts, maybe post here and there and thats it. i havent gotten too involved with people or too involved with the drama. i dont like it when the ladies team up and gang up on people. this site shouldnt be taken so seriously. what i read today made me look at people so differently. i never thought id say that i may not come back on here after the year is over but thats what im leaning towards.Awwwwe Jenn, I hope your not upset with me for being the gawker and telling the 08 girls!!! I would be very sad
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Posted by jennandrolo
Posted by PegaLega
Im crashing-not to defend anything really, just to say that I know there have been a couple of times when there has been drama on this board for things I thought were immature, the comments get immature that is just the way it goes.
Yes it does get nasty. The issue isnt that anyone has been duped-its that we have shared our weddings and lives with girls on here thru out the whole time we post-so to know that someone we spent time replying to and trying to help could possibly have been making up stories hurts some of our feelings. Trust me we dont 'gang' up on anyone. ALOT of girls agreed that we all felt the stories were twisted and not following properly.
I stay b/c regardless of how mean people can be if I can help one B2B that is good enough for me. Like I said-Im not defending b/c yes it got out of hand-but you shouldnt throw stones when you live in glass houses-I remember the karen incident and there were girls who were upset thinking she was a fellow 08er. So before you jump on us being immature (which is rightfully so as we are) step back and take a look at your next drama thread and see if you dont think the same thing
i totally get what your saying but i only said what i said because ive been one of the brides that has only been involved in drama maybe once. every other time ive either missed it or just ignored it cuz it was dumb. if someone asked me to tell them the whole karen story i wouldnt even be able to cuz i wasnt involved in that either. all i know is she made a few names and even went to a gtg. the other day when we had the regular poster create a fake name to take trash, i posted once and that was to ask who it was after they had figured it out. it doesnt matter if it was on the NW board, the 08 board, the 09 board or etc. i just dont take i-net drama serious.
Posted by PegaLega
So before you jump on us being immature (which is rightfully so as we are) step back and take a look at your next drama thread and see if you dont think the same thing
Posted by Espo22
i don't know, immature or not i do have to say thank you to LIW for keeping me entertained this week, wow were there 4 fake brides or accusations of fake brides this week, maybe even more than 4. Ive been stuck in my room with nothing to do so it helped pass the time![]()
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sorry might be wrong and maybe did get out of hand in the luvabul situation, wont comment on that. It happened, people did apologize, unfortunate situation but happens on LIW
The others though, they came on liw and made 2nd sn's to verbally attack us so i wont feel bad about my comment of this entertaining me
Posted by Sharron70
And the whole 'get off our board, you're not a NW' is rather childish as well. So what, you've (not .you specifically)been married 7 mos. and all of a sudden you have this infinite wisdom on married life and the universe in general that is beyond me? Give me a break
Posted by PegaLega
Posted by jennandrolo
Posted by PegaLega
Im crashing-not to defend anything really, just to say that I know there have been a couple of times when there has been drama on this board for things I thought were immature, the comments get immature that is just the way it goes.
Yes it does get nasty. The issue isnt that anyone has been duped-its that we have shared our weddings and lives with girls on here thru out the whole time we post-so to know that someone we spent time replying to and trying to help could possibly have been making up stories hurts some of our feelings. Trust me we dont 'gang' up on anyone. ALOT of girls agreed that we all felt the stories were twisted and not following properly.
I stay b/c regardless of how mean people can be if I can help one B2B that is good enough for me. Like I said-Im not defending b/c yes it got out of hand-but you shouldnt throw stones when you live in glass houses-I remember the karen incident and there were girls who were upset thinking she was a fellow 08er. So before you jump on us being immature (which is rightfully so as we are) step back and take a look at your next drama thread and see if you dont think the same thing
i totally get what your saying but i only said what i said because ive been one of the brides that has only been involved in drama maybe once. every other time ive either missed it or just ignored it cuz it was dumb. if someone asked me to tell them the whole karen story i wouldnt even be able to cuz i wasnt involved in that either. all i know is she made a few names and even went to a gtg. the other day when we had the regular poster create a fake name to take trash, i posted once and that was to ask who it was after they had figured it out. it doesnt matter if it was on the NW board, the 08 board, the 09 board or etc. i just dont take i-net drama serious.
Totally understand, I wasnt necessarily pointing fingers at anyone, I was saying in general b/c I know there are people on this thread that have been involved in drama. Its a catch 22, I may see something as immature that someone else wont and vice versa.
Im the friggin king of drama so I am guilty of it, I dont take it personally. Ive been involved in drama that I wasnt even technically involved in-so I know how it goes. Im just saying-so many people comment on something when they arent directly involved but dont step back and see their actions are the same when they are. Does that make sense?
Posted by Sharron70
The only 'drama' thread's I've gotten involved in were those started by obvious fake brides just coming here to start trouble. Any other threads that turn into drama, I just state my honest opinon on the original subject (i.e. taking off one's shoes during the reception) or I don't get involved at all. And the 'Karen' incident was before my time.
That's not to say I don't have strongly held opinions regarding what goes on here (b2b under stress, people getting offended too easily, getting snippy with one another), but I generally stay out of it.
And the whole 'get off our board, you're not a NW' is rather childish as well. So what, you've (not .you specifically)been married 7 mos. and all of a sudden you have this infinite wisdom on married life and the universe in general that is beyond me? Give me a break
Posted by PreshusSmurf
And as for the grand announcements about how you won't be transitioning over to the NW board after you're married .... why don't you just wait and see how you feel once you're married?
Posted by PreshusSmurf
Posted by PegaLega
So before you jump on us being immature (which is rightfully so as we are) step back and take a look at your next drama thread and see if you dont think the same thing
Very well said!
I also want to add that many of you have admitted that you only skimmed through the thread and didn't read the whole thing. Granted, it was tedious to read it all, and I definitely cringed at some of the things that were said ... but if you don't know the whole story, then it seems to me that your comments are a little off base.
I think that some girls still don't feel like things add up, and there are still unanswered questions. No one really owes anyone an explanation, but after spending a year or more chatting with people about personal details of your life, many people feel like they form real bonds with girls on here (myself included).
When something doesn't add up, it makes the hairs on the back of your neck stand up. It makes you question what you've told this person, and puts you on guard. I think that is what you were seeing from many of the NWs.
I personally didn't really get involved in the thread today because I wasn't online until the end of it ... but also because I didn't really interact much with this particular poster, so I wasn't on edge as much as the other girls.
And as for the grand announcements about how you won't be transitioning over to the NW board after you're married .... why don't you just wait and see how you feel once you're married?
Posted by jennandrolo
Posted by Espo22
i don't know, immature or not i do have to say thank you to LIW for keeping me entertained this week, wow were there 4 fake brides or accusations of fake brides this week, maybe even more than 4. Ive been stuck in my room with nothing to do so it helped pass the time![]()
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sorry might be wrong and maybe did get out of hand in the luvabul situation, wont comment on that. It happened, people did apologize, unfortunate situation but happens on LIW
The others though, they came on liw and made 2nd sn's to verbally attack us so i wont feel bad about my comment of this entertaining me
the psycho who made the 2nd sn did entertain me cuz when we found out it was a regular poster of course we were like ***? i didnt comment on the thread with all the detective work lol but it did make sense to me why the 08 brides wanted to figure out who it was.
i feel bad for luvabal cuz she shouldnt have to keep proving herself to the board. even after she posted pics that were obviously her, she was given a hard time.
Posted by PegaLega
Posted by Sharron70
The only 'drama' thread's I've gotten involved in were those started by obvious fake brides just coming here to start trouble. Any other threads that turn into drama, I just state my honest opinon on the original subject (i.e. taking off one's shoes during the reception) or I don't get involved at all. And the 'Karen' incident was before my time.
That's not to say I don't have strongly held opinions regarding what goes on here (b2b under stress, people getting offended too easily, getting snippy with one another), but I generally stay out of it.
And the whole 'get off our board, you're not a NW' is rather childish as well. So what, you've (not .you specifically)been married 7 mos. and all of a sudden you have this infinite wisdom on married life and the universe in general that is beyond me? Give me a break
No never said that.
Lets see if I can explain what that NW board thing is all about. Please dont take it personally b/c its not a personal thing at all. The NW board we dont really talk about our weddings much at all. Some of the girls dont ever check BHB or the 07 or even 08 for that matter b/c they dont want to b/c they are over their wedding. We get upset when B2Bs post wedding related questions on NW b/c we dont want to talk about that. Those who choose to help out do by going to BHB and 07 and even 08 to help out where they can. its hard to understand until you are there-I know I didnt get it but I never posted on NW until after I was married. I posted on the 06 board or BHB and hoped there was someone out there that could help me. Its not a matter of dont come over here we dont want you-its more we dont want to answer wedding related questions b/c most of the girls dotn want to go there anymore. I hope that made sense. Me-like I already said-If I can help, I will! If I cant I move on, I always try to be helpful...even if I get involved in drama.
Posted by Sharron70
Posted by PreshusSmurf
And as for the grand announcements about how you won't be transitioning over to the NW board after you're married .... why don't you just wait and see how you feel once you're married?
True, as by the time I'm married, most of the girls from here will (presumably) be on NW and I do feel the most connection with them. I just don't appreciate the childish, clique-y attitude that [i]appears[/i] to be there now.
Posted by PegaLega
Posted by Sharron70
The only 'drama' thread's I've gotten involved in were those started by obvious fake brides just coming here to start trouble. Any other threads that turn into drama, I just state my honest opinon on the original subject (i.e. taking off one's shoes during the reception) or I don't get involved at all. And the 'Karen' incident was before my time.
That's not to say I don't have strongly held opinions regarding what goes on here (b2b under stress, people getting offended too easily, getting snippy with one another), but I generally stay out of it.
And the whole 'get off our board, you're not a NW' is rather childish as well. So what, you've (not .you specifically)been married 7 mos. and all of a sudden you have this infinite wisdom on married life and the universe in general that is beyond me? Give me a break
No never said that.
Lets see if I can explain what that NW board thing is all about. Please dont take it personally b/c its not a personal thing at all. The NW board we dont really talk about our weddings much at all. Some of the girls dont ever check BHB or the 07 or even 08 for that matter b/c they dont want to b/c they are over their wedding. We get upset when B2Bs post wedding related questions on NW b/c we dont want to talk about that. Those who choose to help out do by going to BHB and 07 and even 08 to help out where they can. its hard to understand until you are there-I know I didnt get it but I never posted on NW until after I was married. I posted on the 06 board or BHB and hoped there was someone out there that could help me. Its not a matter of dont come over here we dont want you-its more we dont want to answer wedding related questions b/c most of the girls dotn want to go there anymore. I hope that made sense. Me-like I already said-If I can help, I will! If I cant I move on, I always try to be helpful...even if I get involved in drama.
