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Girls who have/had a band (re: song choice)

sarahdavid Posted:

Girls who have/had a band (re: song choice)

I'm just wondering how much song choice you had when dealing with the band. So far we have only been asked to provide our band with a few song choices. Other people I've spoken to who had bands said that they chose about 90% of their music. Part of me wants to leave it alone and let them play what they play since they're the professionals, but the other part is worried that I could possibly not like what they play and regret not speaking up. TIA

Lsorrent Posted:

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What band are you using? Did they give you a song list?

We're using Code Bleu, and I'm pretty sure (hoping) they give us a song list to choose from.
sarahdavid Posted:

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All we got was a 2 page letter in the mail asking for our bridal party and parents names, father/daughter, mother/son, first dance, and cake cutting songs. It also has a part for 'favorite songs/artists', but thats it! I was expecting a little bit more.

MikeandJess Posted:

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our band gave us a request form and we did request a few songs but mostly let them choose the music

sarahdavid Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

our band gave us a request form and we did request a few songs but mostly let them choose the music



Were you happy with the music?
MikeandJess Posted:

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Posted by sarahdavid


Posted by MikeandJess

our band gave us a request form and we did request a few songs but mostly let them choose the music



Were you happy with the music?



I was very happy with the music
Tracey1979 Posted:

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Posted by Lsorrent

What band are you using? Did they give you a song list?

We're using Code Bleu, and I'm pretty sure (hoping) they give us a song list to choose from.



I have a song list from Code Bleu - you don't have one? Ask Sean to send you one!
Lsorrent Posted:

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Posted by Tracey1979


Posted by Lsorrent

What band are you using? Did they give you a song list?

We're using Code Bleu, and I'm pretty sure (hoping) they give us a song list to choose from.



I have a song list from Code Bleu - you don't have one? Ask Sean to send you one!



I have the one they gave out at the showcase that I booked them at. But I thought that was just a 'piece' of their song list
Tracey1979 Posted:

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Posted by Lsorrent


Posted by Tracey1979


Posted by Lsorrent

What band are you using? Did they give you a song list?

We're using Code Bleu, and I'm pretty sure (hoping) they give us a song list to choose from.



I have a song list from Code Bleu - you don't have one? Ask Sean to send you one!



I have the one they gave out at the showcase that I booked them at. But I thought that was just a 'piece' of their song list



Ask if he has anything more recent. He said they know everything and will learn for you too, so search online other wedding songs if you need more ideas. They were SO good at the showcase.
marriedinmontauk Posted:

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I had two bands...one for NY and one for Cali.
The NY band (The saints of swing) who I highly endorse, learned our first dance, and made out a plan of sets which they loosely followed.

My band in CA, I really let just play what they want, we picked a first dance. They charged me so little,(1100$), that I didn't want to be too bossy!
The singer said I was her favorite bride ever, and everyone had a good time.
All in all, I would encourage them to play what they do the best, plus your requests.
Tracey1979 Posted:

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Our band will take our suggestions, and we tell him specific songs that are extra important. If I tell him Sweet Caroline is my favorite song, he will play it, but he will wait for me to be on the dance floor so I can enjoy it too.

They also go with the crowd, and sense what they are up for.
Cassie15 Posted:

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I would def type a list on MSWord and list the songs that you def want them to play for the DJ List as well as your personal songs- First Dance, Father & Daughter Dance, Intro, etc. I would only leave them with a 30% chance to surprise the guests with the rest of the music selections. The prob with leaving it to your band for most of your music is the variety. It's going to be a mix/compile of songs that might had been played out in previous weddings with a few different songs in the end. However, if you take charge and type out a list then they'll know what to cover and play something that both you and your guests will enjoy. This way it only leaves them a small percentage to fill in the gap for the rest of the song list. It's typical for a band to ask you what you would like them to cover for the songs. It's 90% most of the time for couples to decide rather than the band. I guess it depends on the band you work with for your wedding.

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