Do you find that you and FH are fighting MORE with the wedding coming closer? I know it's stress but my god I swear if FH weren't a male I would think he was ovulating! Also, do you find that guests and / or bp are making things your problem that really shouldn't be your problem? Share or vent here!
Mici n KC
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I have a BM that is a problem and that's only because my wedding isn't about her!
ETS: I really didn't have a choice in not putting her in the BP because she is a relative of FH.
Lil83108
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I want to kick someones A$$ right now
MikeandJess
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Posted by Mici n KC
I have a BM that is a problem and that's only because my wedding isn't about her!
ETS: I really didn't have a choice in not putting her in the BP because she is a relative of FH.
Isn't it crazy how much people think your wedding is about them?
MikeandJess
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I want to kick someones A$$ right now
do it. You'll feel better
cherish83
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I still have some time, but with the stress of the invitations and more things to do, we have been fighting a bit more lately
FutureMrsCarrieri
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we were fighting like crazy and then it calmed down -- we're two peas in a pod right now
ttw910
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FH and I aren't fighting yet, but we will be if he doesn't take care of some of the things on his list VERY soon (esp. our rings).
Also, some of my coworkers are stressing me out having me trying to figure out how they will get to and from my wedding. I want to tell them - I don't care how you get there, just get there. I have much bigger things to worry about than where you get ready.
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we argue more, but because we just moved in together for the first time in 4 years. Life is a lot harder now because we are both used to our own space and neither one of us have that anymore.
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FH and I aren't fighting yet, but we will be if he doesn't take care of some of the things on his list VERY soon (esp. our rings).
Also, some of my coworkers are stressing me out having me trying to figure out how they will get to and from my wedding. I want to tell them - I don't care how you get there, just get there. I have much bigger things to worry about than where you get ready.
I too and tired of people telling my how inconvenienced they are by our wedding, and telling me all of their woes.
blech
MikeandJess
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FH and I aren't fighting yet, but we will be if he doesn't take care of some of the things on his list VERY soon (esp. our rings).
Also, some of my coworkers are stressing me out having me trying to figure out how they will get to and from my wedding. I want to tell them - I don't care how you get there, just get there. I have much bigger things to worry about than where you get ready.
YES, this is exactly what I meant! I have one coworker who keeps asking me, if you're getting married at 11 who is supposed to do my hair, ummm a brush and your two hands?!?!? And then I have a friend who was trying to figure out a way for her to get to my wedding (she lives a few states away). I'm sorry i want everyone to be there but I can't figure EVERYTHING out, I have enough on my plate...do people not realize this?!?
LuvMyAlfonse
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We fought like crazy. It suuuuuuuuuuucked.
I don't know what the deal is with manly mood swings but I swear that Alfonse ovulates too.
You're not alone.
MikeandJess
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we argue more, but because we just moved in together for the first time in 4 years. Life is a lot harder now because we are both used to our own space and neither one of us have that anymore.
you'll get used to each other. I'm a messy person and he is a neat freak so we both had to find a happy medium. We've lived together for almost 4 years now and we still have our little spats but it's not like it was in the beginning
LuvMyAlfonse
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Oh yeah - I had to coordinate a LOT of things. When I was particularly stressed, I didn't answer my phone or email. Fuk em.
laurak102476
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I keep handing my FH my bottle of Midol!!! He is driving me INSANE!!!
Mici n KC
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I just drink....heavily
shoegal68
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the week before tension was really high. we fought alot.
also, seems like my OOT guests thought i had nothing better to do than to cart them around town days before my wedding. They were like 'oh and what time will u pick us up at the train station' i was like here is book called the yellow pages, look under taxis i am sure u will find plenty of numbers!!
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FH and I aren't fighting yet, but we will be if he doesn't take care of some of the things on his list VERY soon (esp. our rings).
Also, some of my coworkers are stressing me out having me trying to figure out how they will get to and from my wedding. I want to tell them - I don't care how you get there, just get there. I have much bigger things to worry about than where you get ready.
We had a similar situation. Some of FHs friends decided we should hire them a charter to take them from Queens to our wedding and then sent FH an email saying so.
MikeandJess
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I just drink....heavily
I like this answer. I might grab a beer
Kimbalina
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I kinda feel like i am always putting on a smile or a show- Like if i am not always in a constant good mood then something is wrong with my wedding