Do you find that you and FH are fighting MORE with the wedding coming closer? I know it's stress but my god I swear if FH weren't a male I would think he was ovulating! Also, do you find that guests and / or bp are making things your problem that really shouldn't be your problem? Share or vent here!
hb123
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Totally! We have been driving each other crazy, though it has gotten a little better. 2 weeks ago I was wondering which one of us was going to make it out alive.
bluekat16
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WE def. are fighting more. It generally has to do more with $$ because literally we can't do anything because we're saving...so it's taking a toll on both of us.
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I kinda feel like i am always putting on a smile or a show- Like if i am not always in a constant good mood then something is wrong with my wedding
Oh my God! That is SO true. No smile = you're a bridezilla. I hate that term more than anything in the world!!!!!!!!!
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I have a BM that is a problem and that's only because my wedding isn't about her!
ETS: I really didn't have a choice in not putting her in the BP because she is a relative of FH.
Isn't it crazy how much people think your wedding is about them?
im glad to read this...
ummm...can we remind people...MY wedding...i can and will do what iiii want and dont need to consult you before making decisions (and obv i dont mean fh)
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I love that I sent a self addressed stamped envelope to people that they never bothered returning, then proceeded to call them to see if they were coming and still haven't received responses. I sent STDs a year ago, you knew the wedding was coming-the least you can do is let me know if you are coming or not.
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You are my savior!! I am so glad you said this. FH and I have been going back and forth about the STUPIDEST things and people are starting to drive me crazy. Who can get Nana (my grandmother) to the house, who's kids need a nap.... I have to say though, FH went on his Bach party this weekend and I missed him like I have never missed him before. The time apart did help....we were able to cool off
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Posted by MIssBridalBliss
I love that I sent a self addressed stamped envelope to people that they never bothered returning, then proceeded to call them to see if they were coming and still haven't received responses. I sent STDs a year ago, you knew the wedding was coming-the least you can do is let me know if you are coming or not.
My RSVP date was aug 1 and we're still waiting on like 15 responses. I read in a bridal magazine that you should track the guests down once and then if they don't respond take it as a no. I followed this rule! If they show up the day of the wedding it'll be their problem figuring out where they're sitting
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You are my savior!! I am so glad you said this. FH and I have been going back and forth about the STUPIDEST things and people are starting to drive me crazy. Who can get Nana (my grandmother) to the house, who's kids need a nap.... I have to say though, FH went on his Bach party this weekend and I missed him like I have never missed him before. The time apart did help....we were able to cool off
Glad I can help! I knew I wasn't the only one that was having these issues!
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OMG this is soo true!!! Me and FH got into an argument over something so silly tonight like the way we were going to have the BP announced at the RH. Ugh i'm started to feel so overwhelmed and FH just shrugs everytthing off as if its nothing...I wish I could act so nonchalant about things
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Ooooh yes, we are definitely arguing a lot more lately! It really s u x!!! We are also fixing our house and we are nowhere near done... so the stress of not having somewhere to live, on top of the wedding being so close has really got us on edge. Sometimes I can't wait for everything to just be over so we can go back to normal!
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FH blew up last week because he felt the wedding was too big, especially the guest list.
He said we have to cut at least 50 people from the guest list, and asked how many of my guests were not first cousins or aunts & uncles, and I said 10. And then proceeded to rattle off at least 45 guests on HIS side who did not fit that criteria, so he backed off of cutting them.
This past weekend, I told him I really didn't want to do the bouquet toss, and he readily agreed, but said, 'What if my niece Susie and niece Sally want to catch the bouquet.' That's when I blew up and told him it was my bouquet and my wedding, and if they want to catch the bouquet they should go to someone else's wedding.
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If it makes you feel any better....DH and I got home from our honeymoon TWO weeks AFTER our wedding. Two days later, we got an RSVP in the mail. It was from someone who showed up at our wedding. On the back it said 'Better Late Than Never?!' He's lucky he is a friend.
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LMAO 4 weeks before our wedding we had such a big blow up over nothing whatsoever. I FLIPPED out on him and even told him 'with only 4 weeks to go til our wedding you can explain why the wedding is off!' We laughed it off and that was it. No more fighting after that.
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I haven't been fighting with FH much...more so with my MOM! She is constantly asking me to help her do things around the house and stuff..Umm I'm getting married in FOUR days and I need to finish up placecards and finish moving into my new apt...she didn't help me at all!!
FH & I just keep saying..we'll be in Aruba SOON!! And then in our own house.
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we argue more, but because we just moved in together for the first time in 4 years. Life is a lot harder now because we are both used to our own space and neither one of us have that anymore.
you'll get used to each other. I'm a messy person and he is a neat freak so we both had to find a happy medium. We've lived together for almost 4 years now and we still have our little spats but it's not like it was in the beginning
You def will need to learn to pick your battles and not let everything get to you. You will learn to look the other way or find a happy medium. My best example is the fact that FH doesn't use a washrag in the shower-yuck...He leaves a hairy soap and it is nasty. My solution-we each have our own soap bar-on separate shelves! Problem solved. FH hates my inpatience. I ask him to do something but can't wait so I do it myself. Also, FH is listening to heavy rock and drinking right now, I hate that music, just drowning it out.
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I just drink....heavily
ditto to that one
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We arent finghting but I did get into w/ a BM. I was sooo close to hitting her but i didnt bc when its all said and done the only thing that matters is i am getting married to the man of my dreams on saturday..... Although I told him we had wedding stuff to do last night after is football draft and he came home drunk so ...... but its ok i made fun of him while we picked out the entrance music... its going to be sooo funny when he hears the songs he picked out while he was drunk :)
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Yes we're definitely getting alot more pissy w/ each other, but it's just b/c there is so much left to do...FH said I'm always running around and he's feeling neglected b/c I'm never home anymore...
Less than 11 more days and we can enjoy our big day and HM...that is my motivational factor...I get up at 4:40 every morning and I'm not going to bed until just before 12. So I'm bordering on delusional right about now
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Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri
we were fighting like crazy and then it calmed down -- we're two peas in a pod right now
this is us too we were fighting mainly cause i was stressing, lol but now with 3 weeks to go whatevers not done ain't getting done oh well lets get married! lol
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I feel like i tried to do everything myself and it didn't work out well. With about 4.5 weeks to go, I feel very overwhelmed... not stressed.... I just feel like there is something to do every night, i can't fit in my work outs, i can't make a home cooked meal b/c we are always on appointments...
And yes, by the time Joey and I get home from all of this, we are so tired and cranky that we are far from love birds right now.
