Girls..after thinking about it, i'm dissapointed...

jtgarsik Posted: Jan 12, 2008 01:29 PM

Girls..after thinking about it, i'm dissapointed...

i admit i commented to the LV wedding earlier...but after thinking about it, I deleted it...honestly, this is someone else's wedding girls. We all know that everyone has a different vision for their wedding....whether any of us personally thought her wedding was over the top then that's our opinion...but if her dream was to have an LV train down the back of her dress & pull off in an LV mobile, than good for her. Would any of you like it if someone had a whole thread dedicated to ripping ur wedding apart?? I think u'd find it very hurtful... I think we should leave this alone..

Mrs B to Be Posted: Jan 12, 2008 01:33 PM

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nicely put.....not that i'm not guilty of thinking the same thoughts as everyone else but your absolutely right.....i would hate for anyone to make a thread about anyone of us.

rocketsummer17 Posted: Jan 12, 2008 01:43 PM

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Very true...We all have our opinions about it, but we need to put ourselves in the other persons place...we wouldnt like it if someone made a joke out of our wedding....

Colette Posted: Jan 12, 2008 01:43 PM

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BoxOfRocks Posted: Jan 12, 2008 01:50 PM

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Posted by jtgarsik

i admit i commented to the LV wedding earlier...but after thinking about it, I deleted it...honestly, this is someone else's wedding girls. We all know that everyone has a different vision for their wedding....whether any of us personally thought her wedding was over the top then that's our opinion...but if her dream was to have an LV train down the back of her dress & pull off in an LV mobile, than good for her. Would any of you like it if someone had a whole thread dedicated to ripping ur wedding apart?? I think u'd find it very hurtful... I think we should leave this alone..

Very nice of you to do this.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Jan 12, 2008 01:57 PM

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Totally agreed...I remember how upset everyone was for Milana (rightfully so!) but it seems like that is what people were doing to this other bride...even if you don't like it or its not your taste, someone else might find it beautiful so please lets be kind and respectful of everyone's opinions!

lucamon Posted: Jan 12, 2008 02:00 PM

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I agree with you.

PegaLega Posted: Jan 12, 2008 02:39 PM

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Agreed! 100%

Brian and Marie Posted: Jan 12, 2008 02:42 PM

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Very well said Taryn!! We have no right to pass judgement on her! I just hope she NEVER comes across this!

LnF0405 Posted: Jan 12, 2008 03:46 PM

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Very good point... We are no one to judge someone taste or preference, I feel that we defend another bride when something similar happen to her and a couple of days later we come a bash a poor girl that we dont even know...

babygirlb Posted: Jan 12, 2008 05:03 PM

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I never thought of it that way. Good point.

Violet19 Posted: Jan 12, 2008 06:15 PM

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I totally agree. I would hate for that bride to know what people said about her special day. Anyway the original post could be deleted by the poster?

HM807 Posted: Jan 12, 2008 06:34 PM

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I agree, but people like Milania were being picked apart for simple things everyone has on their reviews. In this case the person took it totally over the top, and therefore begs for people to comment. Otherwise I agree.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Jan 12, 2008 06:54 PM

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Posted by b2b777

I agree, but people like Milania were being picked apart for simple things everyone has on their reviews. In this case the person took it totally over the top, and therefore begs for people to comment. Otherwise I agree.

So what if she took it 'over the top.' Who defines what over the top is...it obviously wasnt over the top in her opinion..I see know difference between milanias situation and this one. To try and say its ok to bash this girl is very hypocritical.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Jan 12, 2008 06:55 PM

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not classy at all IMO, but hey! if thats what she wanted, she def got it!

if you put your pics up on the internet, you are subjecting yourself to any types of comments good or bad...

lucamon Posted: Jan 12, 2008 08:00 PM

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Normally, I tried to stay out of topics like these. I think she did a darn good job with her theme.
And remember LIW girls, we are here to help each other, not to judge.

diva7531 Posted: Jan 12, 2008 08:08 PM

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

not classy at all IMO, but hey! if thats what she wanted, she def got it!

if you put your pics up on the internet, you are subjecting yourself to any types of comments good or bad...

How do you know she put them up on the net, they don't look like professional pics. It looks like anyone of her guests could have put them up.

To me the only thing worse than bashing this girls wedding is trying to convince us that it is OK!

jtgarsik Posted: Jan 12, 2008 09:44 PM

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Posted by b2b777

I agree, but people like Milania were being picked apart for simple things everyone has on their reviews. In this case the person took it totally over the top, and therefore begs for people to comment. Otherwise I agree.

i think i responded to ur post earlier - and i dont mean this to sound harsh at all - but who are u to judge what's okay to be commented or trashed on & what is not??

HM807 Posted: Jan 12, 2008 09:59 PM

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Im not saying that people should be trashing her in any way. I never even said I didnt like her wedding, or ideas. Just that when you do something to that extent it begs to be commented on... love or hate. I agree that that should not be done on a public form tho. It is mean, and the pics shouldnt have been posted to begin with.
Hope I wasnt misunderstood.

jtgarsik Posted: Jan 12, 2008 10:09 PM

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Posted by b2b777

Im not saying that people should be trashing her in any way. I never even said I didnt like her wedding, or ideas. Just that when you do something to that extent it begs to be commented on... love or hate. I agree that that should not be done on a public form tho. It is mean, and the pics shouldnt have been posted to begin with.
Hope I wasnt misunderstood.

no worries