I literally have asked my FH to do THREE simple things for me - all of which he needs constant reminders about, and NONE Of which he has completed yet. They don't take more than 3 minutes per item to do - WHY IS HE SUCH A PROCRASTINATOR!!! I KNOW HE IS BUSY AT WORK BUT THIS IS RIDICULOUS!!!!!!
suebride
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sounds like my FI!
FunBride
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How do you deal with it? I'm going ballistic. What makes it worse is my mom keeps asking me when the tasting is and i'm like 'I CAN'T EVEN GET MY FH TO GIVE ME TWO SECONDS TO TELL ME!'
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i know it is irritating.... but i guess that's how men work (or not work.. )... my FH is the EXACT same way......
AND, while he doesn't do his part, he complains about me nagging him, thinks i'm just over-nervous about things....
dude, things don't just get done themselves!!!!!!!!!
FunBride
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i feel like i'm losing my mind here!!!
Jen2999
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yea and then they get mad and say you nag them too much
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Posted by suebride
sounds like my FI!
Me too!!!!
Flylilgrl
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UUUgggh!! Mine had ONE VERY simple job.... pick out tuxes or military uniforms for his guys. All he had to do was make up his mind!! Its not like he had to go w/ them!! He coulnt even do that. Pi$$ed me off!
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I'm totally with you on this -- when I bring up the things I need his input on he always puts me off. Important things too -- like the budget. (I have to wait until tomorrow to discuss the budget!)
But all he really has to do it pick out a tux and show up!
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sounds like mine to. He use i work all do so i don't have time to do it or i'm tired
Mrs_B
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Mine does NOTHING... I love it that way.. Its MY wedding Shhh dont tell him I said that
Happybride2005
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thank god mine has been helpful. just the registry stuff wasn't for him
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I make detailed lists and then follow up I read on some board that some girl was calling their wedding her FH 'surprise' party! Thought that was funny.
