GM/BM Question---Weird, but true.....
Long story short----one of my BM's is a long time family friend. She had asked me to be in her wedding party last year sometime. So, of course, I happily obliged and then counter-offered for her to be a part of mine.
However, it was recently discovered that her FH would also like my FH to be in his GM party (they do not know each other AT ALL, and have only met twice----I don't know him either--I have met him the same two times). FH and I think this is VERY strange, since nobody really knows him....but my FH will of course, put a smile on his face and be a part of his GM party.
Here's the question----do we now have to have HIM as part of our bridal party?? We both feel that our bridal party should be our closest friends/family and that's it.....but would we be breaking an 'etiquitte' of some sort by not counter-offering a position in OUR wedding party???
Any help you girls can offer will be truly appreciated. I feel like I am stuck between a rock and a hard place in this situation and we're not quite sure what to do. TIA!!!!
However, it was recently discovered that her FH would also like my FH to be in his GM party (they do not know each other AT ALL, and have only met twice----I don't know him either--I have met him the same two times). FH and I think this is VERY strange, since nobody really knows him....but my FH will of course, put a smile on his face and be a part of his GM party.
Here's the question----do we now have to have HIM as part of our bridal party?? We both feel that our bridal party should be our closest friends/family and that's it.....but would we be breaking an 'etiquitte' of some sort by not counter-offering a position in OUR wedding party???
Any help you girls can offer will be truly appreciated. I feel like I am stuck between a rock and a hard place in this situation and we're not quite sure what to do. TIA!!!!
