GMs and their tux!--I am peeved!
So it was hard enough to chase my BMs to get them to order a dress and all I heard was about money complaints, (their dresses were under 200 for everything). They made me feel horrible.
Now two of FI's GMs won't pay up for their tux. One guy has no job and the other guy lives out of town. I asked him three times nicely to send the check, but nothing.
If there is a money issue why can't he just tell me? He has always been a cheap guy so I think that is the problem here.
Their tuxes are 200.00 each--yes that is higher than other places, but another GM got married and rented tuxes from the same place for 40.00 more. and FI can say is 'It's par for the course'.
No, not when it comes out of our budget. We are paying for everything. He doesn't want to ask them for the money because he said it makes him look cheap. That is 400.00--we can really use that money on something else.
Why is it that my BMs and his GMs make us feel bad about them spending money?
When you accept being in a bridal party, there are costs that you know you must incur. It is not fair that I am being avoided, yelled at, given attitude and feeling guilty when we have tried out best to right by all of them.
I am just peeved!
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Now two of FI's GMs won't pay up for their tux. One guy has no job and the other guy lives out of town. I asked him three times nicely to send the check, but nothing.
If there is a money issue why can't he just tell me? He has always been a cheap guy so I think that is the problem here.
Their tuxes are 200.00 each--yes that is higher than other places, but another GM got married and rented tuxes from the same place for 40.00 more. and FI can say is 'It's par for the course'.
No, not when it comes out of our budget. We are paying for everything. He doesn't want to ask them for the money because he said it makes him look cheap. That is 400.00--we can really use that money on something else.
Why is it that my BMs and his GMs make us feel bad about them spending money?
When you accept being in a bridal party, there are costs that you know you must incur. It is not fair that I am being avoided, yelled at, given attitude and feeling guilty when we have tried out best to right by all of them.
I am just peeved!
