so im goin to a engagement party and i dont know what to give/bring/ or do i even bring anything??? im a BM in her wedding, and shes' one in mine
she doesn't have a registry yet either!
what shall i do?
jennandrolo
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give money??
08JulyBride
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money is always the favorite gift
jessamyn78
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I would say to give money.
MrsDrinkh20
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definitey money or a gift card to a store that they will register at or at least that they can use (like Bed Bath Beyond, target...etc) I would definitely bring something though.
Summer07Bride
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Summer07Bride
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lmt245 - I had the same wedding song as you.
Papillon25
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I would say money or a small gift like a nice frame/photo album.
Summertimegal424
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how much do i give tho??
november152008
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give money engament parties i give about 200 per couple.....is it out in a hall? are they having a dj? engagment parties cost not that far off from weddings these days.....
if it is in her house you can give alittle less....
did you have an e-party? give her what she gave you that is the trick i usually do when going to parties...
november152008
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alot of bride/grooms do not registr until after the engament parrty because they want MONEY as a gift to put towards the wedding.....
the future mrs m
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money...
lookitscassie
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definatly money. most people dont register b/c thats what they want
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Posted by COwens424
so im goin to a engagement party and i dont know what to give/bring/ or do i even bring anything??? im a BM in her wedding, and shes' one in mine
she doesn't have a registry yet either!
what shall i do?
definitely $$
Summertimegal424
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No im not having an engagment party, no dj, its at her FH house, there having catered food and just a big bbq thing....i def think 200 dollars is obsurd!
lonal
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Money is perfect. I think you asked how much . . . as a bm, I think I would give $100. Or $50-$75 with a small gift.
Summertimegal424
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is it tacky to get her a personalized sweatshirt w/ the future mrs **** on it plus $$$ ?
ML110
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i would give $50 and maybe a small gift, so about 75 total. i think $200 is crazy for an engagement party gift, too!! engagment parties are supposed to be just to celebrate the couples engagement, not to be a fundraiser to help pay for the wedding! especially since it sounds like its gonna be a more casual thing, AND espeically since you're going to be putting out $$$$ to be a BM.
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Definitely money, 150-200 I think will do. If you cant afford to give that much maybe give less and get her a nice personalized frame or a planner.
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my MOH just had her e-party. while we already had an aggreement that neither of us would give to the other seeing as how we are each other MOH`s that we`ll be doing enough over the next year, i brought a card and i know she got ton of cash gift cards to BBB and william sonoma and pier one and such. she also got things like towels and coffee/tea sets. it really depends on the bride and groom to be`s situation. have they been living together?? if so the probably don`t need house stuff so much. cash is the safe route, this way they can put it towards the wedding or whatever they may need.
