So, I asked Fh yesterday if he would help me put together the table seating and place cards tonight because they are due in ten days...and even tho our RSVP date was today, they are due in TEN days. He said he had alot of work to do tonight and couldn't help. I called him at five on the way home from work and he was on the boat. OH> so I spent about three hours doing it alone and he didn't answer one text message from me. Anyway, he just got home and I was finishing up and he said....' I hope yiou didn't do my family because I'm going to change it all anyway. I don't know why you insisted on doing it right away!'
I almost threw all the cards at him but instead I told him to leave the room and not talk to me. He didnt listen right away and we yelled at each other instead.
I know it's just wedding planning stress but I just feel like I don't want to get married at this moment and it *****
ValnChris
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any one else go through this or is everyone in bed?
Ahhhh
MrsJ08
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You came this far, its almost here...you should just think 'why am I not surprised' ... Yes you are stressed, your almost done with the seating, you worked your butt off and your tired...take a break and tell FH that you and him will sit together and go over it...you never know there might just be little changes...just take a deep breathe and everything will be ok...
just think HM
ValnChris
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thanks..i'm trying lol
Madorie
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Not that I'm even close to doing seating arrangements, I have however had plenty of spats with FH over wedding stuff. It will pass. Wedding planning and work will cause stress and anxiety. I hope you guys talked it out and are feeling better. You know you'll get it done eventually. Maybe you can encourage FH to set a specific time to do the arrangements so that you don't have to get all stressed waiting around for him.
MrsJ08
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Don't worry...I just fought with FH about the RD...like who to invite and stuff...its just weddinh stress...I thought I was going to love planning but I am really hating it now...alot of ppl say that you will go through wedding withdrawls after the HM like what do I do know...so I guess just take advantage of these crazy days...later on we all laugh about it...
ValnChris
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thanks, right now I'm definitely not laughing but FH woke me up this morning and apologized..and said that he really does want to help, he just wanted to go on his boat last night instead and isnt quite as obsessive about getting everything done right away as I am. I had to hold in screaming RIGHT AWAY? we have 22 days left, LOL...but boys will be boys I guess. Thanks for listening!
