Going to kill FSIL I almost cried (I was attacked)
MegBert
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Going to kill FSIL I almost cried (I was attacked)
ok so this morning we were having friendly conversation..Me FSIL and FMIL and talking about a few vacations I have planned so she asked me what I was doing during one of them and I said we were going to be doing wedding stuff...and then it began....'Don't you think you are too young?' 'how do you know he is the one' 'I cant believe you guys are getting married' 'how can you want to get married, you guys are to young' I was biting my tounge so so hard all I said was 'when you know you know' and FMIL also came to our defense and said that We wont be getting married until Im 23 and he's 25 OMG Lets just said one less bridesmaid to deal with I already told FH she was out !!! am I being to harsh...I wont speak to her and she will not be part of something she doesnt agree with...who is she to say that to me.... I wish there was an icon of someone holding a knife !!!
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At your icon holding a knife!!!! Oh man I know FSILs can be horrible ... thank god FH only has one brother and even his brothers wife can be annoying FH doesnt want her in the wedding! ... oh I feel so bad for you. I wouldn't want her in my wedding if i were you either .. it sounds like she is jealous!
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Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO
At your icon holding a knife!!!! Oh man I know FSILs can be horrible ... thank god FH only has one brother and even his brothers wife can be annoying FH doesnt want her in the wedding! ... oh I feel so bad for you. I wouldn't want her in my wedding if i were you either .. it sounds like she is jealous!
She is jealous beacuse she is 30 and cant hold a boyfriend for more than 2 dates!!!!!
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then you know it's jealousy! .....try and ignore it or better yet when she starts ranting just starts talking about all your plans!
MegBert
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I cant wait to do that and I cant wait to aske her othe sister to be in my wedding and not her....I dont give second chances and FH is well aware if that
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I'm just upset you know...I want people to be happy for me and every person I tell who is young with a Va Jay Jay is just jealous ...you really see peoples true colors
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At your icon holding a knife!!!! Oh man I know FSILs can be horrible ... thank god FH only has one brother and even his brothers wife can be annoying FH doesnt want her in the wedding! ... oh I feel so bad for you. I wouldn't want her in my wedding if i were you either .. it sounds like she is jealous!
She is jealous beacuse she is 30 and cant hold a boyfriend for more than 2 dates!!!!!
Well you just answered your own question she probably has some jealousy in her and maybe doesn't want her litter brother getting married b/f her..who knows..i think that's crazy. Everyone gets married at all different ages..Its nobody's business!
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At your icon holding a knife!!!! Oh man I know FSILs can be horrible ... thank god FH only has one brother and even his brothers wife can be annoying FH doesnt want her in the wedding! ... oh I feel so bad for you. I wouldn't want her in my wedding if i were you either .. it sounds like she is jealous!
She is jealous beacuse she is 30 and cant hold a boyfriend for more than 2 dates!!!!!
Well you just answered your own question she probably has some jealousy in her and maybe doesn't want her litter brother getting married b/f her..who knows..i think that's crazy. Everyone gets married at all different ages..Its nobody's business!
Exactly that why I was so mad because who the hell is she to say anything...ahhh
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MegBert
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oh that just wasnt nice of her
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Megbert, just remember you know this is right for you...nobody else has to think that...you will show her when you and FH are happily married...make her eat her words...plan an awesome wedding adn make her feel like a shmo!
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Megbert, just remember you know this is right for you...nobody else has to think that...you will show her when you and FH are happily married...make her eat her words...plan an awesome wedding adn make her feel like a shmo!
I will every second of the way ....
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At your icon holding a knife!!!! Oh man I know FSILs can be horrible ... thank god FH only has one brother and even his brothers wife can be annoying FH doesnt want her in the wedding! ... oh I feel so bad for you. I wouldn't want her in my wedding if i were you either .. it sounds like she is jealous!
She is jealous beacuse she is 30 and cant hold a boyfriend for more than 2 dates!!!!!
LMAOOOOO definitely jealousy.... it doesnt matter how young you are... honestly, it doesnt. youre exactly right... if you know, you know... i was with FH for literally a month and a half when i knew. people criticized me for it... but whatever... they'll never be as happy as i will be... ergo, jealousy!
dont put her in the wedding then... youre right... she shouldnt be there if she doesnt condone it. FCK HER!!!!
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At your icon holding a knife!!!! Oh man I know FSILs can be horrible ... thank god FH only has one brother and even his brothers wife can be annoying FH doesnt want her in the wedding! ... oh I feel so bad for you. I wouldn't want her in my wedding if i were you either .. it sounds like she is jealous!
She is jealous beacuse she is 30 and cant hold a boyfriend for more than 2 dates!!!!!
LMAOOOOO definitely jealousy.... it doesnt matter how young you are... honestly, it doesnt. youre exactly right... if you know, you know... i was with FH for literally a month and a half when i knew. people criticized me for it... but whatever... they'll never be as happy as i will be... ergo, jealousy!
dont put her in the wedding then... youre right... she shouldnt be there if she doesnt condone it. FCK HER!!!!
thats what i told FH and he said it was being harsh and I said it will take alot for me to change my mind...I dont deserve to be disrespected like that
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Ugh that's really horrible but you're lucky that your FMIL came to your defense otherwise it could be ALOT worse. YOU and him know you're doing the right thing that's all that matters.....and sorry but this was the only appropriate smiley I could find
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wow, i cant believe she came out and said that to you. If i were i wouldnt be able to hold my tongue. Im pround of you for doing that but they had no right to do that to you. Im sorry that happened now you dont have to worry about that BM.
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I JUST posted a thread last night about that. How people ALWAYS come at me saying Im too young etc. etc. Its so annoying and people need just mind their business!!
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A lot of times it is just jealusy and you have to look at it as these people dont know what is best for you only you can determine that
MegBert
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Posted by dancinmyazoff
Ugh that's really horrible but you're lucky that your FMIL came to your defense otherwise it could be ALOT worse. YOU and him know you're doing the right thing that's all that matters.....and sorry but this was the only appropriate smiley I could find
hahaha I love the smile thank you all...I feel much better!
