Gonna vent about FH too

I have been so stressed and on edge lately between holidays, wedding, money, my birthday, working every day, etc.

FH had a huge blowout and I even left (for the day) and told his parents (we live with them) I was going to move out.

Fh & I finally talked last night and he appologized for his behavior and will work on being more considerate towards me.

Now his job has him working in the city on my birthday, and from new years eve on, for about a week, he will stay in the city.

This is not how I planned on spending my B-day or the holidays.

Aww!! I'm sorry he won't be there for your b-day. What the heck is the matter with men. They are so insensitive!

Sorry Jenny

Bummer!!!

Can you meet him in the city after work for your birthday?

I would suggest as an idea to book a hotel in the city and then you can go into work the next day from the city (or take the morning off?)

How far are you from the city?

I am seeing my mom for dinner on my b-day,,,he will be home sometime in the evening. I told him,,,he better get cracking on ideas of how to make it up to me and make the day special with what time we have together. I told him I don't care who or how many people he needs to ask for help, I want romance, and it to be made up to me BIG TIME. I can't wait to see what he'll think of. he know's I am upset, but did not take it out on him that he had to work during the day.

I live on nass/suff border. I think I will go into city with him for new years, if that is my only choice.