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good grief - sorry so long

LB and DC Posted:

good grief - sorry so long

not sure if i posted about this yet, so sorry if it's a repeat...

one of my BMs is my FSIL, and she just turned 20, so my my MOH and BMs planned a bachelorette party in the city she could attend. i don't know what it is yet for sure, it's a surprise, but i know it's dinner, then *something* where you only have to be 18 to get in, and then we were going to hit up a bar or two afterwards. to make things fun - and easier for her (she is the biggest ditz on the planet and couldn't find her way out of a paper bag) my mom and FMIL are coming to the dinner and the *thing* afterwards, and the plan was for mom, FMIL and FSIL to take the train home and the rest of us would go out.

keep in mind, when i got engaged, the first thing FSIL said was 'i have to get a fake ID so i can go to your bachelorette party.'

so now i find out that she's NOT COMING. not that we won't have a blast but the MAIN reason my BMs found this other thing to do was because FSIL is underage.

where will she be, you ask?

at her ex-boyfriend's sister's graduation party.



FSIL and her bf broke up about 2-3 weeks ago... mind you, thet break up all the time... but now she goes over his house - W T F?! - and hangs out there all day (nope, you guessed it, she doesn't have a job) while his sister (yes, the one who just graduated) and cousin tell her she shouldn't be there and to get lost. his cousin also threatened to call the cops on her if she didn't leave.

the best part is FMIL told me the other day that she is glad FSIL isn't coming because she will 'actually have fun' without her there.

how the heck did FH turn out so normal???
mkc56 Posted:

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Wow, that is really rude. Can FH say something to her like this is going to be your SIL and this is a one time thing...rude!!!!!

LB and DC Posted:

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FH was more pissed than i was! so was my mom for that matter. he said he was going to say something but i don't think he has, and i honestly don't think it will make a difference. at this point i don't care - she has made ZERO effort so far, and barely helped with the shower at all.

BrideInBlue Posted:

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sounds like hes a little nutty. I'm sure you'll all have more fun without her their and even if plans were changed to accommodate her I'm sure it's still something really great!

SusiBtoM Posted:

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One less thing to worry about, having an underage twit hanging around.
Have a blast at your B-Party !
soon2BMrsDee Posted:

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whoa! someone needs to smack some sense into that girl! no offense - but seriously!
LB and DC Posted:

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Posted by soon2BMrsDee

whoa! someone needs to smack some sense into that girl! no offense - but seriously!



oh how i wish it could be me... i have a feeling that would get me uninvited to christmas dinner REAL fast, though...
sweetdreamz1181 Posted:

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Posted by LB and DC


Posted by soon2BMrsDee

whoa! someone needs to smack some sense into that girl! no offense - but seriously!



oh how i wish it could be me... i have a feeling that would get me uninvited to christmas dinner REAL fast, though...




bigrd37 Posted:

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LB your sister told me about FSIL the other day! I just can't believe she would do this! well, actually I can! Unfortunately, I had a feeling she would do something. I just didn't think it would be that she wouldn't come AT ALL! We all know how she is.

Please don't worry about her b/c you know how much FUN we will be having!!! Saturday will be a BLAST!!!

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