So I want to start of by saying im sorry again. I really am sorry for everyone who got hurt by some of the things said about them. I know im going out on a limb here because everyone hates me right now but I feel some things need to be explained for the girls. I board was started when a previous 'clique' (or whatever you want to call it) attacked a group of girls who were only trying to do a nice thing and plan a shower for everyone. Unfortunately everything got out of hang and It was not right in anyway. WE felt hurt and angry that we were being attacked for trying to do something nice. That in no way justifies what some people said on the boards but it was in the heat of the moment. If I could take it back I would. What I dont understand is that im 100% positive that if we went through FMs there was prob even worse stuff said about us! why is it OK to talk about people behind their back in FM and not ok to talk about people in a private chat board? I think it is wrong either way... I said I was sorry and I hope we can move forward. I wish we would be able to find a civil way to end the mean cycle that has been started, who has some ideas of how we can do this?
MrsDrinkh20
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Im not really sure how you girls were attacked...if you are referencing the shower drama, i thought we all handled that on FMs? Nobody was mad that girls wanted to plan a shower, but when you posted that we should contact you and 3 other girls 'the planning committee' people were a little shocked...any issues I have with people that need to be discussed I discuss with THEM via FM. I don't feel the need to plaster it on a new message board and get my jollies by making fun of others. I have much better things to do with my time. Hope this makes sense Lisa. Thanks for the apology. It takes a big person to do that.
longislandlibrarian
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Posted by FutureMrsLV
So I want to start of by saying im sorry again. I really am sorry for everyone who got hurt by some of the things said about them. I know im going out on a limb here because everyone hates me right now but I feel some things need to be explained for the girls. I board was started when a previous 'clique' (or whatever you want to call it) attacked a group of girls who were only trying to do a nice thing and plan a shower for everyone. Unfortunately everything got out of hang and It was not right in anyway. WE felt hurt and angry that we were being attacked for trying to do something nice. That in no way justifies what some people said on the boards but it was in the heat of the moment. If I could take it back I would. What I dont understand is that im 100% positive that if we went through FMs there was prob even worse stuff said about us! why is it OK to talk about people behind their back in FM and not ok to talk about people in a private chat board? I think it is wrong either way... I said I was sorry and I hope we can move forward. I wish we would be able to find a civil way to end the mean cycle that has been started, who has some ideas of how we can do this?
Lisa I agree with you completely......it got totally out of hand........and started even more drama... we are all sorry.... well at least i know I am....
MrsDrinkh20
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Lisa I agree with you completely......it got totally out of hand........and started even more drama... we are all sorry.... well at least i know I am....
thanks kristin...I must admit, i think a lot of people were really surprised to see your name on those boards...
edit: also, i will speak for myself here, but I realize that there were some girls who joined later in the game not knowing what had been happening. I feel bad for you ladies who are 'guilty' by association...thanks for the apologies