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Got an offciant! Chose invites! Meeting DJ today!

Pencils Posted:

Got an offciant! Chose invites! Meeting DJ today!

We're meeting Ralph from High Energy today. I hope he has a great presentation, I'd rather not keep looking! So lazy.... But we're a pretty simple job. We just want music, no light show, no giveaways, no emcee, maybe a couple of announcements, like 'we're cutting the cake now!' We're not doing most of the 'regular' or standard wedding stuff, just a first dance and then everyone will join us on the dance floor and it will be open dancing the rest of the reception. No special dances. And no annoucing of the bridal couple. If our guests don't know who the woman in the big white dress and the guy with her are, they're at the wrong wedding. And it's not like I'm changing my name, so there's no Mr and Mrs Pencils to announce.

Lots of stuff going on this week, wedding wise. Finally got our invites all worked out. Getting them from White Aisle, the Lux pocketfolds, just with a bunch of customizations. We're going to book our honeymoon this week, finally.

And, most importantly, we have someone to marry us! Rabbi Alan Stein, who is a vendor on here, I believe, although my fiance got his name as a recommendation. We really liked him. I'm not Jewish--not religious at all--but my fiance is and he really seemed to want a rabbi. If it's important to him, it's fine with me. We need someone to marry us, and if I don't have a preference, let my sweetie choose. And, as I said, we really liked him, and he seemed to get us. Or not--he didn't get us, he was totally unfamiliar with a lot of our shared interests (like science fiction, and real science) but he did immediately see that we're very much in love and very well suited to each other. So, yay, that's one BIG check on the list. Now, the DJ--there's fewer than four months left, we need to get moving on this stuff!
Dee606 Posted:

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that's a lot to get done in a short amount of time
PegaLega Posted:

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Thats alot of stuff done!! Congrats I hope everything goes well with the DJ
Snickers76 Posted:

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I feel just like you, Pencils! I read these boards and see girls getting married way after me who have done soooooo much more than I have...I still need a forist, veil & headpiece, invites, favors, limos...ahhhhhh!
Pencils Posted:

Re: Got an offciant! Chose invites! Meeting DJ today!

And we have a DJ! Yay! We liked Ralph a lot. He gave us a good price, and didn't try to sell us any extras we didn't want. Also he's been to Timber Point many times, knows the setup, which is good. He's going to do the ceremony and cocktail hour music for us too. I had vague thoughts of having live music for the ceremony, but...nah. I don't want to pay what it would cost to get what I'd like or be happy with, so we're better off with recorded music. Now we just have to decide on it! I think we finally figured out a first dance song, although it sounds cheesy. Anyone see the movie 'Strictly Ballroom?' My fiance and I both love it. At the end of the movie they play 'Love is in the Air' (a hit in the 70s) and everyone gets up and dances--I think we're going to dance to that.

Pencils Posted:

Re: Got an offciant! Chose invites! Meeting DJ today!

I read these boards and see girls getting married way after me who have done soooooo much more than I have...I still need a forist, veil & headpiece, invites, favors, limos...ahhhhhh

Oh, I know! We get a cake as part of our package, but we still have to meet with the baker. I hope to do that this or next week. I've picked out my headpiece but haven't bought it yet, nor have I bought shoes. I'm still trying to decide if I want the expensive shoes with the crystals (love 'em!) or the nice but plain shoes that cost $150 less. Veil...it's going to be plain, I think, so not a big deal. And I haven't booked my hair or makeup yet, but I'm pretty sure I'm going with a local salon that says they'll open early. I should book them definitely this week. Florist--I'm doing my own flowers, but I haven't put the order in yet, I should do that. And we're doing a donation favor, so that's OK. But I've got a bunch of DIY things I want to do that I haven't started yet. Eeek! And now that we're having a Jewish wedding I have to come up with a huppah.

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