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got my postcard today to choose my FOCCUS times

girlygrl33 Posted:

got my postcard today to choose my FOCCUS times

oh yippy cant wait!!!! how many had to do this?

Charly Posted:

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I did! I did!

It wasn't so bad! Going over the results was kind of interesting!
butterfly20 Posted:

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we took our foccus test back in july and they still havent called us in to go over it.....

kissy27 Posted:

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we have to still do it....I was told it gets very interesting when you go over your answers with you FH!

FoxHollowbride0617 Posted:

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We recently did ours and we did pre-cana already. I thought the whole process was very interesting.

Backinneyork Posted:

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We did ours a few weeks ago. It took about a half hour or so. Haven't received a call about meeting with a 'facilitator' yet...

slwh2005 Posted:

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We've started pre-cana, but haven't heard anything about FOCCUS. What is it?

Dooodles Posted:

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What exactly is FOCCUS?

girlygrl33 Posted:

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FOCCUS is a test to see just how compatible you and your FH are at least thats what I got out of the way the deacon explained it, he said its a test to get you to open up about yourself and it hits on topics you may not have discussed in your relationship- like finances, is an example he gave us, so he said its something new because there is too much divorce so the catholic church is trying to prevent it by getting you to communicate more - this way you find out NOW instead of after your married. fix the issues if there are any- and resolve them now. pretty interesting- cant wait to take it.

slwh2005 Posted:

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We haven't been told anything about this. We started pre-cana a couple of weeks ago. Is it possible we don't have to do this?

girlygrl33 Posted:

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Not all churches do this- lucky me!!! My FH parish does. but im curious to see how we pair up. and I'd love to see his views on the same questions. I think I will def get to know know him inside a bit better than I allready think I know.

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