Groomsman Question

CandE Posted: Aug 09, 2006 08:17 PM

Groomsman Question

Is there such a thing as a Junior groomsmen?

I have a cousin he's about 15 who I really want to be in my bridal party. My FH doesn't mind him as a groomsmen but he doesn't want to have to invite him to the bachelor party.

How do I ask my cousin to be apart of my day with out insulting him that he's not invited to the bachelor party?

Any suggestions would be great

sarahradio5 Posted: Aug 09, 2006 08:20 PM

Re: Groomsman Question

I'm having my FH's 8 y/o nephew as a Jr. GM. Yeah, I guess that's the only difference. And I already told him he can go in the limo on the day of the wedding, which he's all psyched about!

He keeps asking what he 'does'. Um... the same as the other groomsmen... nothing! lol...

He'll just walk his mom down the aisle, FH's sister, who is one of my BM's.

CandE Posted: Aug 09, 2006 08:24 PM

Re: Groomsman Question

Is it just assumed that if they are under 21 they don't go to the bachelor party?

jtgarsik Posted: Aug 09, 2006 10:19 PM

Re: Groomsman Question

i have a bridesmaid/jr. thats only 14 as well as a groomsmen whos 18. We're doing our bachlor&bachlorette parties without them, but we're also going to make it a point to have a 'jack&jill' party with everyone...they will be included in that.