GRR. some people don't get it.

So even though most of us realize that this is a place for brides to come and post frustrations, share stories and ideas, some brides seem to find it ok to tell your fiance about it and tell them the site name, your screen name and therefore, get you in trouble as some of us, myself included, have VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY private fiances who do not even begin to understand this site in the slightest fashion. They believe that if you mention in response to another bride's fiance who has posted on here to whine that he isn't getting any because of this site that 'when you whine about it, we can hold out longer' means we are telling his coworkers about his sex life which is not the case.

My fiance's secretary was mean enough to not only tell him my screen name but after I told her not to tell him the site's name, someone did. Well, now he's mad at me. I am mad at her. I will/have taken this up with her. I do not appreciate such treatment as I made it clear to her that he wouldn't appreciate this site or any possible postings as he is a very private person...to the point that I joke about if he'll kiss me at the end of the ceremony....he is not a 'PDA' kind of guy.

Be warned, if any LIW brides happen to work with your fiance, they may tell him what you post!



ETA-changed title so it's less obvious.