Grrr Bachelor Party

So I totally hate Strip Club and FH says he does too but since it's his 'Bachelor Party' he says he must go... I guess he doesn't hate them that much, LOL

I totally trust him not to do anything wrong but just the idea of being in that environment makes me want to vomit... now how to I get over it?

I'm a strong believer in what I don't know can't hurt me, but he won't stop talking about it infront of me.

Thinking he's just trying to push my buttons, but enough is enough.

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Posted by Courtz

So I totally hate Strip Club and FH says he does too but since it's his 'Bachelor Party' he says he must go... I guess he doesn't hate them that much, LOL

I totally trust him not to do anything wrong but just the idea of being in that environment makes me want to vomit... now how to I get over it?

I'm a strong believer in what I don't know can't hurt me, but he won't stop talking about it infront of me.

Thinking he's just trying to push my buttons, but enough is enough.

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SO FH and ALL of his friends will be in Vegas for a joint bachelor party for himself and a one of his closest friends. I know for a fact that he will def have a stripper which im not totally okay with but it doesnt bother me all that much (idk why). BUT that being said, I still didnt wanna sit home and think about him partying in Vegas with all his friends. So I made my bachelorette party the same weekend in AC! This way I don't have to think about it.

If he really knows it bothers you and hes pushing your buttons on purpose, thats not nice. I would talk to him and let him know that it really bothers you. Also I would be SURE to keep myself VERY busy that night! Go have a girls night or go to a club and party just as hard as he is!

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Posted by hedwards0524

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Posted by Courtz

So I totally hate Strip Club and FH says he does too but since it's his 'Bachelor Party' he says he must go... I guess he doesn't hate them that much, LOL

I totally trust him not to do anything wrong but just the idea of being in that environment makes me want to vomit... now how to I get over it?

I'm a strong believer in what I don't know can't hurt me, but he won't stop talking about it infront of me.

Thinking he's just trying to push my buttons, but enough is enough.

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SO FH and ALL of his friends will be in Vegas for a joint bachelor party for himself and a one of his closest friends. I know for a fact that he will def have a stripper which im not totally okay with but it doesnt bother me all that much (idk why). BUT that being said, I still didnt wanna sit home and think about him partying in Vegas with all his friends. So I made my bachelorette party the same weekend in AC! This way I don't have to think about it.

If he really knows it bothers you and hes pushing your buttons on purpose, thats not nice. I would talk to him and let him know that it really bothers you. Also I would be SURE to keep myself VERY busy that night! Go have a girls night or go to a club and party just as hard as he is!

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Thanks hun.
I really just need to not let things get to me, like this... but lately it's becoming harder. I feel more emotional the closer I get to the wedding.
It's crazy LOL

Venting here helps.

Grrr Bachelor Party

Tell FH your girls are going to hire a hot sexy buff stripper for you and talk about it over and over and see how he likes it! lol

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Posted by jassy119

Tell FH your girls are going to hire a hot sexy buff stripper for you and talk about it over and over and see how he likes it! lol

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THISSS!!!! LOL My FH would be PISSED!

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if you're going to AC-- go to one of the male strip shows there and give him a taste of his own medicine! LOL-- we went to savage men in AC for my friend's bachelorette in september and it was a good time!

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Why would he get pissed at you for having a stripper....if he can have one so can you! If it really bothers you then you should talk about it.

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I don't think just because it's his bachelor party he HAS to go to a strip club... haha. My fiance' isn't into that stuff and had made it completely clear to his Best Man that he wants low key--dinner, regular bars & a hockey game.

However, if my fiance' was trying to push my buttons like yours is.... I'd totally push his right back!

Grrr Bachelor Party

My *husband* wasn't into strip clubs, they went to ac but just the club in harrahs. If he seriously doesn't want it he should say something and figure out an alternative.

Grrr Bachelor Party

My FH is going to Costa Rica for his Bachelor Party and just came back from Colombia for his friends bachelor party. I HATE BACHELOR PARTIES!!!!!!!!!!!

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I can't even begin to get into the mess that is my FH's bachelor party. I was furious for a while but his groomsmen really messed up but he also didn't SAY anything and wasn't pushy that he didn't want to do what was planned
Anyway, whatever, it's ok now but even though he's going on a weekend trip they still aren't doing strip clubs as far as I know and that isn't even the part that would bother me!

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Posted by Mindyepo

My FH is going to Costa Rica for his Bachelor Party and just came back from Colombia for his friends bachelor party. I HATE BACHELOR PARTIES!!!!!!!!!!!

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Costa Rica, that's crazy! I'd be pissed if it was something super nice like that and I didn't get to go

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To try to get your mind off of it and make sure you go out that night and have a good time yourself! Our bachelor and bachelorette parties are going to be the same weekend so neither of us are going to be home alone while the other one is out. So i'm happy about that at least.

And personally the stripper thing doesn't bother me, it's only at bachelor parties that he ever goes to strip clubs, and maybe it's the way i look at it... if he were in a regular club and a regular girl was dancing with him and all up on him there is a chance that means she wants to hook up with him, and may even make a move on him (i would trust him not to do anything with some girl in a club, but this is just my thought process here)... Now a stripper is stripping in front him even doing a lap dance because she just wants a good tip, she is not interested at all in the man she is dancing for! She is doing it for everyone and is not going home with any of them or even trying to. Yeah it's grimey, but it's better then some slutty girl at a club grinding on your man. Maybe thinking of it like that will help you feel better about it?? HTH!!

Grrr Bachelor Party

My FH and I are not into that thing at all and we are both having low key parties that even if I was home or he was it wouldnt bother me. We dont need to have our minds occupied cause its just like we are going out with our friends. I guess we are just old lol

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Posted by jassy119

Tell FH your girls are going to hire a hot sexy buff stripper for you and talk about it over and over and see how he likes it! lol

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This is exactly what I would do.

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Posted by natalierose1085

To try to get your mind off of it and make sure you go out that night and have a good time yourself! Our bachelor and bachelorette parties are going to be the same weekend so neither of us are going to be home alone while the other one is out. So i'm happy about that at least.

And personally the stripper thing doesn't bother me, it's only at bachelor parties that he ever goes to strip clubs, and maybe it's the way i look at it... if he were in a regular club and a regular girl was dancing with him and all up on him there is a chance that means she wants to hook up with him, and may even make a move on him (i would trust him not to do anything with some girl in a club, but this is just my thought process here)... Now a stripper is stripping in front him even doing a lap dance because she just wants a good tip, she is not interested at all in the man she is dancing for! She is doing it for everyone and is not going home with any of them or even trying to. Yeah it's grimey, but it's better then some slutty girl at a club grinding on your man. Maybe thinking of it like that will help you feel better about it?? HTH!!

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PREACH! This is ecactly how I feel

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Posted by hedwards0524

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Posted by natalierose1085

And personally the stripper thing doesn't bother me, it's only at bachelor parties that he ever goes to strip clubs, and maybe it's the way i look at it... if he were in a regular club and a regular girl was dancing with him and all up on him there is a chance that means she wants to hook up with him, and may even make a move on him (i would trust him not to do anything with some girl in a club, but this is just my thought process here)... Now a stripper is stripping in front him even doing a lap dance because she just wants a good tip, she is not interested at all in the man she is dancing for! She is doing it for everyone and is not going home with any of them or even trying to. Yeah it's grimey, but it's better then some slutty girl at a club grinding on your man. Maybe thinking of it like that will help you feel better about it?? HTH!!

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PREACH! This is ecactly how I feel

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You girls are awesome! and you are 100% right, a girl in a club is much worse!
I sat down and told him to just stop messing around with me and shortly after this post he did, better keep it up! I just want it over with already.

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Posted by jassy119

Tell FH your girls are going to hire a hot sexy buff stripper for you and talk about it over and over and see how he likes it! lol

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Hahaha awesome idea!!
This topic has come up so many times with us. I agree, the thought of some nasty you know what even near him makes me sick. BUT, I try to remember that I trust him and how much fun I'm going to have at my bachelorette party. Then, I go to the gym and work my tush off, lol.

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Posted by scottsbride

My FH and I are not into that thing at all and we are both having low key parties that even if I was home or he was it wouldnt bother me. We dont need to have our minds occupied cause its just like we are going out with our friends. I guess we are just old lol

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Mine had a whole 4 day weekend, I had one day. I was pysched he was gone bc I got major wedding diy done without him distracting me!