Since we are going to St. Lucia for our HM - I thought I would try to lose a few pounds (he calls me 'thick'- to him supposedly, thats a compliment). I have been doing well with Weight Watchers (-8 lbs) and was starting to feel a little better about wearing a bikini in St. Lucia.
Well, I ordered one from Victorias Secret and put on the top w/ my sweat pants. It is mostly white and I see it is unlined! - so needless to say, I get wet and everyone gets a show!!!
So, I go to ask him how it looks. He says fine, why? I said, no is there anything that doesn't look right? He says, no, why? I said, no, I mean, is there anything that doesn't really look right? So he then proceeds to touch my side, like my rib cage area and say 'well, maybe if you did something about this a little' !!
I took one look at him and said - 'I meant about the BATHING SUIT - not ME'
As soon as I said that you could see the realization come across his face - like 'Oh my God - I didn't just say that'
I stormed out and said 'now you have ruined the honeymoon! I don't even want to go now!! Why would I when I know you are looking at my side fat!!'
There went any bit of confidence I had - right out the window!!!!
Thanks for letting me vent!
Mrs. dleeny
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Awww! I'm sorry.
I can't wait to read your update later and let us know what he did/got for you to make amends
amyandbill
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they always know just what to say....I would be angry too....let him work this off...he owes you
FutureAJ8505
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You lost 8 lbs and I found them!!
Keep up the good work!
Don't worry about what he said, guys never say the right thing!!
I am sure you look great!
designerbride
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Don't worry you are doing a great job! 8lbs is great! I am sure he feels horrible. Just think if you did 8 already, think about how much you will lose by August, you are making awesome progress! I wish I could lose, I just keep gaining.
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Don't let the stupidity of men run you off track! Keep up the good work on WW and wear that bikini, let him sweat when you catch the eye of other guys!!!
My FH refers to my rear as 'generous' so I tell him that being generous means that it can be shared!!
halfpintny
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MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
romameansamor
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Thanks girls for the support (as I chow down on some skittles )!!
He definitely felt bad b/c he called me all day asking how I was, telling me he loves me, telling me he can't wait until we have kids...
Too funny! Oh well - I guess I should forgive him
Mrs. dleeny
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Posted by romameansamor
Thanks girls for the support (as I chow down on some skittles )!!
He definitely felt bad b/c he called me all day asking how I was, telling me he loves me, telling me he can't wait until we have kids...