Grrrr.....Girls!! SO UPSET :o(

Original post by Amberrenee6705

Jul 06, 2009 05:03 PM

So, Im really mad right now. And sad because one of the girls that was in my wedding is upsetting me. I got sent a thread today from someone saying she was writing about me over in the 2010 brides. Im not the greatest person here...I didnt know we could do that...haha. She goes on and on about how busy she was and how big of a biotch I was, and how bad my wedding was, there are MULTIPLE posts talking about all this and me.....its like excuse me? She is the worst bridesmaid EVER and Im the biotch? How does that happen. SO this is exactly how I responded to her....

http://www.liweddings.com/chat/topic.aspx?ID=615591&Highlight=

Im genuinly hurt by all this because she was a good friend of mine but really....Im not a fan of smearing peoples names around BUT I have to defend myself. I had a wonderful wedding day, it was perfect...all except for our mishap.

**Posted wrong thread...at bottom!**

Amberrenee6705 Posted: Jul 06, 2009 09:57 PM

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Read Me

Here's the right one!

Tracey1979 Posted: Jul 06, 2009 10:45 PM

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Wow. Read the whole thing. I am sorry that happened to you.

Amberrenee6705 Posted: Jul 06, 2009 10:57 PM

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Thanks girls for all your kind words and support. I wish things would have ended differently...but whatever. I got to say what I needed to say.

She even got on here and posted how bad my wedding decorations and stuff were :o(....but now everyone sees what Im talking about.

And the cake...my goodness, there was so much controversy about the cake. I didnt write a whole post about helping with the cake, so hopefully that can be let go. Point is, I didnt want her to be my MAID, I wanted her to be my FRIEND and she wasnt. Simply put.

You win some, you lose some, and Im glad I lost that one.

This is the end of the Amber and Nichole drama.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Jul 06, 2009 11:01 PM

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Posted by Amberrenee6705

Thanks girls for all your kind words and support. I wish things would have ended differently...but whatever. I got to say what I needed to say.

She even got on here and posted how bad my wedding decorations and stuff were :o(....but now everyone sees what Im talking about.

And the cake...my goodness, there was so much controversy about the cake. I didnt write a whole post about helping with the cake, so hopefully that can be let go. Point is, I didnt want her to be my MAID, I wanted her to be my FRIEND and she wasnt. Simply put.

You win some, you lose some, and Im glad I lost that one.

This is the end of the Amber and Nichole drama.

sometimes you're better off just parting ways... sad the way things turn out though.. i do agree it was wrong to comment on your decor and stuff... she could've left that part out if she felt that way... seems like shes really worked up over this and sometimes at that point, the filter goes out the window

catsgirl Posted: Jul 06, 2009 11:26 PM

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Posted by Amberrenee6705

Thanks girls for all your kind words and support. I wish things would have ended differently...but whatever. I got to say what I needed to say.

She even got on here and posted how bad my wedding decorations and stuff were :o(....but now everyone sees what Im talking about.

And the cake...my goodness, there was so much controversy about the cake. I didnt write a whole post about helping with the cake, so hopefully that can be let go. Point is, I didnt want her to be my MAID, I wanted her to be my FRIEND and she wasnt. Simply put.

You win some, you lose some, and Im glad I lost that one.

This is the end of the Amber and Nichole drama.

and at what point are you going to be and adult and friend as well, you know she contacted you about the invite, and you know what all she had on her plate, and it was not minor things that she could push aside, unfortunately this is out of control, and a once incredible friendship is ruined,and I do believe you two need to talk this out privately. but you did tell some not true facts at least be honest when posting !!

Nichole2010 Posted: Jul 06, 2009 11:39 PM

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Posted by catsgirl

Posted by Amberrenee6705

Thanks girls for all your kind words and support. I wish things would have ended differently...but whatever. I got to say what I needed to say.

She even got on here and posted how bad my wedding decorations and stuff were :o(....but now everyone sees what Im talking about.

And the cake...my goodness, there was so much controversy about the cake. I didnt write a whole post about helping with the cake, so hopefully that can be let go. Point is, I didnt want her to be my MAID, I wanted her to be my FRIEND and she wasnt. Simply put.

You win some, you lose some, and Im glad I lost that one.

This is the end of the Amber and Nichole drama.
and at what point are you going to be and adult and friend as well, you know she contacted you about the invite, and you know what all she had on her plate, and it was not minor things that she could push aside, unfortunately this is out of control, and a once incredible friendship is ruined,and I do believe you two need to talk this out privately. but you did tell some not true facts at least be honest when posting !!

no private talk needed! im over it. Im too stubborn and too unsympathetic of a person to care ha.