This is ridiculous and I've just about had it with one of the bms....i've posted this before, and the issue is she still hasn't put down a deposit on her dress..Now I find out she got a $200 tattoo (this was a few weeks ago) then I find out recently that yesterday she took herself on a shopping spree to vs to buy $150 worth of panties!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! would you keep her in the bp at this point or drop her out?
madseason
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Personally, I would be a little annoyed if a friend of mine was keeping track of my spending habits. But I do understand you being upset with her. I just don't suggest bringing up her purchases when you talk to her about being in the bridal party.
thats true....its not the best idea to bring that up...but bms are supposed to be of help to the bride and not be argumentative...i mean u asked them bc she is special and a friend...and it should be returned. I feel like its a sign of disrespect.
Just tell her time is now...if not the wedding is going on without her in it...train is leaving..(insert metaphor here)
I was rereading my post and re-edited it before I saw you reply.
i just re read it and you are 100% rite...sticking to the facts is best way to go....hoensty is best policy...im full of it today!
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You are absolutely right Kristin you should be upset. You should talk to her and tell that the deposit must be down in 2 weeks at your 6 month mark becauses the dresses HAVE TO be ordered that day no matter what.
Ms Sawney
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if she is stressing you then kick her out and replace her no need to stress out
Jamnike
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i would take her out of the bp
blaine08
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i'm sorry ur going through this. You dont need the added stress. I would drop her
Princess Cut Bride
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Kristin have you asked the bridal salon to call her? I would ask them to call her and tell her that they have been waiting for several weeks now to process your bm order and if they don't put the order through within a week they wouldn't have enough time to alter the dresses...make some crap up! If she doesn't answer to this DROP HER! You do not need this stress right now. Obviously she cares about making only one person happy....herself!
