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Guess what one of my BM tells me today

lisalisa27 Posted:

Guess what one of my BM tells me today

She is preggo. She was scared to tell me. Did not want to ruin my day. I told her don't be silly. I love her any shape form or fashion. Problem is she already got fitted for dress and ordered. So I told her we would have to speak with alterations and see what could be done. I also advised her it is up to her if she still wanted to be in the wedding because i know it is going to be hot and all I want her to be comfortable. She will probably be about 4-5months.

brady37 Posted:

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That's great that you reacted that way! Some brides would have flipped out (which is just so wrong to do!)

milana Posted:

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congrats to her! Thats awesome news and kudos to you for being such a good friend!
HelenZ Posted:

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that was so nice of you to offer for her to back out if she wanted to.....but at least she won't be 8 or 9 months prego.....then she'd really be uncomfortable if its hot!!!

diva7531 Posted:

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AW you're such a good friend!!! I said since the begining, I just have a feeling one of my BM;s would be prego, but it would make me happy. One of my friends is kinda trying and two others are amrried, so you never know!

Congrats to your GF
portjeffbride Posted:

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Posted by brady37

That's great that you reacted that way! Some brides would have flipped out (which is just so wrong to do!)



anyone who flips out is pretty @#$ selfish.... don't you think?

congrats to your friend!!!! She likely will be able to still fit into her dress, after it's taken out a bit. My friends only started getting really uncomfortable in the third trimester (unless they had morning sickness )

2nd trimester should be pretty comfy....
lisalisa27 Posted:

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Posted by portjeffbride


Posted by brady37

That's great that you reacted that way! Some brides would have flipped out (which is just so wrong to do!)



anyone who flips out is pretty @#$ selfish.... don't you think?

congrats to your friend!!!! She likely will be able to still fit into her dress, after it's taken out a bit. My friends only started getting really uncomfortable in the third trimester (unless they had morning sickness )

2nd trimester should be pretty comfy....



Yeah she is a bit sick already. So we shall see.
MrsB2BE Posted:

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Posted by lisalisa27

She is preggo. She was scared to tell me. Did not want to ruin my day. I told her don't be silly. I love her any shape form or fashion. Problem is she already got fitted for dress and ordered. So I told her we would have to speak with alterations and see what could be done. I also advised her it is up to her if she still wanted to be in the wedding because i know it is going to be hot and all I want her to be comfortable. She will probably be about 4-5months.



I need to get some sleep because I was reading this and saying whoa this is happening to ... then I realized that it is you - everything will work out
jenafee Posted:

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Same exact thing happened to me and with one of my BM's. I was so happy for her, but she still felt bad knowing she had already placed the order for the BM dress. I told her no big deal.
So what she did was called the bridal salon and they will order her an extra panel that will go around her belly. She'll be 20 weeks at my wedding and it'll be all good

HTH!
snydl40 Posted:

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AWWW Congrats to your BM and for being so sweet to your friend.
PegaLega Posted:

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Congrats to her and to you for the way you took it-you are a great friend!!!
Missladybug15 Posted:

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TnOiOnL Posted:

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awww congrats! I think she will be fine.. some women dont even SHOW at 5 months!
StarryEyedBride Posted:

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Posted by milana

congrats to her! Thats awesome news and kudos to you for being such a good friend!



Defintely!!!!!!!!
iamvocal72 Posted:

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Posted by lisalisa27

She is preggo. She was scared to tell me. Did not want to ruin my day. I told her don't be silly. I love her any shape form or fashion. Problem is she already got fitted for dress and ordered. So I told her we would have to speak with alterations and see what could be done. I also advised her it is up to her if she still wanted to be in the wedding because i know it is going to be hot and all I want her to be comfortable. She will probably be about 4-5months.



If this is her first child she may not actually START showing until that time so she won't be HUGE. I mean at least that is the case for most women in their first pregnancy.

Is there anyway you can cancel the order for her dress and maybe order her a different style? Wait - what style are your dresses? are they empire waist? those are easier to add fabric to around the middle....

call your place - ask!

YAY BABIES!
olivia30 Posted:

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Hey Lisa, you have the right attitude. My advise would be to see how big she is about a month from the wedding because she could not show one week and have a little bump next week. You never know how big or small your belly will be during pregnancy. She will be fine and so will you
Mooshyboo Posted:

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awww congrats....
BubbasBride Posted:

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congrats and applause for you for not being upset about it...as so many brides tend to be!

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