Guest issue!!

I'm a little upset and here is why. I moved a lot when I was younger so I have few friends from childhood. The is one friend I've know for 14 yrs. We are still very close. My FH loves him and thinks hes a great guy and we asked him a yr ago to be one our GM's. He said yes. At that time he was single. Soon he started seeing this girl who I never liked. I didn't hate her, but after that snobby B#%!#@ stole $200 out of my purse, I flat out told him I don't want her going to my wedding. He still believes she innocent. We know she did it and I never got my money back.. Most of my guest in our medieval group know her, because yrs before me she was once involved in our medieval group and she was a theif and liar then too, hence she is not welcome with any of them. My friend refuses to believe she took my money. So I told him flat out, I don't want that dirty &*^(*&( coming to my wedding, and he told me he isn't coming now. My FH is upset with me for saying that. But I don't want that @$%@ coming to my wedding. Am I being a brat??? My FH knows she took my money, but he is very good friends with my friend as well. So I don't know what to do. Sorry this is long.

WOW!!!! I don't really have any advice on this - b/c it's a comfort issue. I know you won't have any major contact with her b/c you'll be so busy being the life of the party, but you have to think of the other guests, their personal belongings and safety, along with your wedding card box.

ETA: I forgot to give you some major

well i would not allow ANYONE who stole from me or anyone i know at my wedding.

now i cant say that the wording you used helped the situation..and maaaayyyybe that could have been handled better.( if you actually called her bad names to her boyfriend/your friend)..but i would have said no as well. and would have wanted to curse her too lol

i am sooooooo sorry !!!! eeeks!!!