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Guest list...... omg.....
DB2013
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 10:10 AM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 10:10 AM
Guest list...... omg..... - Long Island Weddings
we invited 285 and ended up with 165. With FH line of work many guys and their wives could not come so we expected it. However there were certain people we were very shocked that didn't come.
Lguido
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 10:33 AM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 10:33 AM
Guest list...... omg..... - Long Island Weddings
We have to guarantee 150 and were inviting 180.. I'm worried that we're notgoing to meet our minimum but we also don't want to go way over our minimum either..
pamelitz17
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 10:36 AM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 10:36 AM
Guest list...... omg.....
We are inviting around 130 people, hoping our last count for 110 which is our min! If go less than 110 we still have a B list.Good luck!
lauren1802
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 11:00 AM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 11:00 AM
Guest list...... omg..... - Long Island Weddings
also being a friday night wedding helped us keep it low.
Jack84
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 11:15 AM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 11:15 AM
Guest list...... omg..... - Long Island Weddings
Now im nervous that we wont make our 175 minimum! We have 215 on the list? We are budgeting for 200 just in case. Maybe I should start making new friends?? LOL
butrfly1rm
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 12:08 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 12:08 PM
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ugh My final count was 307
lpatticake
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 12:25 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 12:25 PM
Guest list...... omg..... - Long Island Weddings
We invited 215 and ended up with 164 guests. It really depends on your friends and family and what else they have going on.
cets1290
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 03:41 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 03:41 PM
Guest list...... omg..... - Long Island Weddings
we're inviting 280 and planning on having about 200 at the wedding... we didn't invite everyone with guests though- I know that etiquette says that over a certain age that people should be invited with a guest, but we are only inviting BP with dates, and people who have been dating over 1 year or are engaged
VMY86
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 03:46 PM+
Guest list...... omg..... - Long Island Weddings
def depends on the family i invited 205 people and having about 140. that was about 35% no. I was def suprised how many nos i recieved and a bit disappointed..but you know what i guess it matter that you haev the most important people there and that is it. But i would say there is no rule of thumb def depends on the family/friends.
aiavaro1
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 04:54 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 04:54 PM
Guest list...... omg..... - Long Island Weddings
Everyone says to plan for a lot of unexpected yes' but I would say the opposite. I invited 215 people figuring I'd have around 195. Well here I am a week before the RSVP date with only about 8 people left to respond and I only have 157 yes'. I had a lot more no's than I expected.
Diorprincess
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 05:23 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 05:23 PM
Re: Guest list...... omg.....
Posted by aiavaro1
Everyone says to plan for a lot of unexpected yes' but I would say the opposite. I invited 215 people figuring I'd have around 195. Well here I am a week before the RSVP date with only about 8 people left to respond and I only have 157 yes'. I had a lot more no's than I expected.
I really hope that happens to me. I've been arguing all day with family trying to cut guest list and just no one seems to want to lol. then my divorced parents are arguing who pays for the extra I mean since my mom invited more people but it's like it all adds up not just her guests....... *sighs*
emmaNrob
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 07:20 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 07:20 PM
Guest list...... omg.....
Good luck Diorprincess, I swear the guest list and seating plans are the part that will make you crazy!
Diorprincess
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 07:39 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 07:39 PM
Re: Guest list...... omg.....
Posted by emmaNrob
Good luck Diorprincess, I swear the guest list and seating plans are the part that will make you crazy!
I'm scared for the seating. just the guest list I barely slept last night
larlynn
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 09:41 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 09:41 PM
Re: Guest list...... omg.....
Posted by Jack84
Now im nervous that we wont make our 175 minimum! We have 215 on the list? We are budgeting for 200 just in case. Maybe I should start making new friends?? LOL
Take some of mine!!!!!
Gambigoo
Posted: Oct 24, 2013 09:43 PM+

Posted: Oct 24, 2013 09:43 PM
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I want to stay at our 150 minimum as well.. I think we have roughly 175 now so we may need to add so were not under
melhunny46
Posted: Oct 26, 2013 11:32 AM+

Posted: Oct 26, 2013 11:32 AM
Guest list...... omg..... - Long Island Weddings
our minimum is 150 and we are inviting 170. I hope we don't go under our minimum
melhunny46
Posted: Oct 26, 2013 11:32 AM+

Posted: Oct 26, 2013 11:32 AM
Guest list...... omg..... - Long Island Weddings
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