FH's best man is gay and has a boyfriend. We are really good friends with both. Do we send an inviation to just the best man and put Mr Robert K and Mr Robert K (yes, they are both named Rob and have last names that begin with K)......or do we send seperate invitations???
Mrs. dleeny
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wow, that's a good one!
If I were in your situation, I would probably invite them both separately... since you're friends with both of them. But I would give them a heads up about it incase 1 gets an invite before the other one.
katieshope
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When FI and I were just dating and not living together mutual friends of ours were getting married and they sent us both seperate invites, so I would just do that.
AJsMommy122
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We did not send a seperate invitation to FH's bestmans girlfriend even though we see her all the time so its really the same situation. Only one invitation is needed. We did the same thing with my sil. She was a bm and got 1 invitation for her and her fh.
lrs2005
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If they are an official couple then I would send them one invite with both of their names on it in alphabetical order by last name K BLAH. But, if they are just dating then I would send each person his own invite. Lisa
KimberlyBride
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Do they live together? If so I would send one invite. If not I would still send one invite and send it to the person he has known longer.
prncssrachel
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One invitation. They are a couple, so I don't see why their invitation should be worded differently than any other couple's invitation.
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Posted by dleeny
wow, that's a good one!
If I were in your situation, I would probably invite them both separately... since you're friends with both of them. But I would give them a heads up about it incase 1 gets an invite before the other one.
Good idea
Mrs_B
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I would send one invite. '
eta.. i had 2 sets of women couples that are being invited and both names are on those invites.
Happybride2005
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when i had the envelopes addressed, for cousins that have a boyfriend, i put both of there names on the envelope and its being sent to the cousins house
Soon2BMrsJoeF
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Well my one of my FH's brothers is gay and he is also in the BP. We are sending him an invitation as we would to anyother couple addressed to Mr._____________ & Mr._____________ blah blah blah. They have been together for 5years so it is not like this is something new
trnity44
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Thanks for all your help Ladies!! :)
AnniesSS
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I would send one invitation with both names. They are a couple the same as anyone else - but just not a married couple.
adioguardi
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Boyfriend should get his own invite - especially if they live separately.
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Posted by prncssrachel
One invitation. They are a couple, so I don't see why their invitation should be worded differently than any other couple's invitation.
I agree.
Ang&Rich
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Do they live together? Would the BM feel comfortable having it addressed that way - for example if he's living at home with parents?
trnity44
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Posted by Ang&Rich
Do they live together? Would the BM feel comfortable having it addressed that way - for example if he's living at home with parents?
They live seperately. BM lives in an apartment- and everyone knows about his orientation
melissaandsean
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I invited a gay couple and addressed it as:
Mr. Robert Jones Mr. Dave Smith address
The same way for other couples who lived together, or have been together for years.
103005FallBride
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We have a few gay couples and we just addressed the envelope (std) as Mr. John Smith and Mr. John Smith .... We're doing the same on the invites too.
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Posted by prncssrachel
One invitation. They are a couple, so I don't see why their invitation should be worded differently than any other couple's invitation.
I agree..... they are a couple do as you would any couple.
